Bedwetting

[DaddyZach]

Hey guys, I'm having trouble with my little girl. She wears diapers during the day and is okay with it but doesn't like wearing them to bed. Recently she has been wetting the bed and wakes up upset each morning. I'm also starting to get a bit annoyed waking up wet. What should I do for my poor little girl?

[Guest PrincessCakes]

Unless it's a medical condition, she's probably too reliant on the diapers, although you could try to wean her off it (no drinks several hours before bed, go to the bathroom right before bed and etc) it may be more adviseable to go to the doctor because as I said before it could be a medical condition. Or she could just wear the diapers to bed..

[cuppycakes]

I agree with PrincessCakes, but also wanted to add some other options.

1. Pullups are an option. They're less like diapers, but I don't know how much it'll hold. It would help a little at least.

2. You could try waking her up in the middle of the night to go potty. (even if she says she doesn't have to go) (disclaimer: I thought of this because my parents did it, but I've read places that it might not work so do so at your own discretion.)

3. Layer on top of the mattress a shower curtain, pet pads (you can even get washable ones instead of disposable), sheet, you, blanket.

4. Wear diapers to bed. She'd get used to it, and it would certainly be a better alternative to cleaning a wet bed.

[Rantanplan]

Honestly, this looks like a fake post to me

[Johnny Hammersticks]

Honestly, this looks like a fake post to me

You might be surprised. ABDL, bedwetting and diapers are DEFINITELY a thing.

 

My advice to OP, either make her wear diapie at night or no drinks past 8 or 9, and make sure she goes potty right before bed.

 

Taking care of an ABDL little is challenging. You almost have to control everything she drinks.

Edited April 6, 2017 by Guest

[Chicki]

Well, she may need a doctor? Um, urinary incontinence isn't good...?

That or training your bladder and learning to hold it through the day. You can't always rush and pee on a whim just because you "can"

You have to learn to train and hold. 

[Princess-P]

So she's medically incontinent? Wearing diapers/mesh briefs and pads, and using a soaker pad (either disposable or reusable) is your best bet. Also invest in a medical mattress protector. Once your mattress is stained in urine it will start to really smell.

 

If she doesn't like wearing diapers at night then you can't make her. If she won't do anything to help herself you have to decide between waking up wet or sleeping elsewhere.

[Rantanplan]

You might be surprised. ABDL, bedwetting and diapers are DEFINITELY a thing.

My advice to OP, either make her wear diapie at night or no drinks past 8 or 9, and make sure she goes potty right before bed.

Taking care of an ABDL little is challenging. You almost have to control everything she drinks.

I am also DL myself and I have read a lot of stories during the years. And my unshakeable opinion regarding above story is that it is fake. Young women might buy the story, I don't. Why would someone not want to wear diapers at night while wearing them during the day is ok?

Of course I would love being a daddy of a bed-wetting little. There would be so much more care to give compared to an older little, but I doubt the above scenario. Bed-wetting is not easy. You have to do it on purpose. You would need a dribbling bladder, an incontinent person or a drugged person. Emptying the bladder in one shot is unlikely. Maybe once in 5 years when you were dreaming. But not every night. If the story was true, I'd ask if she was secretly given any dangerous medication.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

I am also DL myself and I have read a lot of stories during the years. And my unshakeable opinion regarding above story is that it is fake. Young women might buy the story, I don't. Why would someone not want to wear diapers at night while wearing them during the day is ok?

Of course I would love being a daddy of a bed-wetting little. There would be so much more care to give compared to an older little, but I doubt the above scenario. Bed-wetting is not easy. You have to do it on purpose. You would need a dribbling bladder, an incontinent person or a drugged person. Emptying the bladder in one shot is unlikely. Maybe once in 5 years when you were dreaming. But not every night. If the story was true, I'd ask if she was secretly given any dangerous medication.

Try not to overthink it, me and my little are ABDL and she loves wetting the bed. Does it regularly. True story. She is extremely extremely AB.

 

And to the other poster who said you cant make her wear diapie if she dosent want? You absolutely can make her and should. I dont know if you have experience with how the AB mentality works, but from my experiences they like and need to be told what to do.

 

Control how much water she drinks, when she drinks it. Make her ask permission to potty and punish her if she goes without permission.

Edited April 6, 2017 by Guest

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Well I don't wear diapers and I am not incontinent, medically or otherwise. I would ask, why doesn't she want to wear them at night?

 

I don't suspect this story to be fake. Has she recently suffered some form of trauma? Trauma can make the mind do odd things, especially in ones sleep. Is she medically incontinent or does she choose to be?

 

Regarding the inability to make her wear diapers to bed... I reckon that would depend on your power exchange dynamic and her willingness to submit to your every command. If she truly doesn't want to and isn't consenting, then I reckon you CAN make her but that's more abuse. I would tell her you wish her to wear diapers at night and explain WHY.

[EmmaSmith1]

Try using a bedwetting alarm. These are little system that can help train your child to stop wetting the bed at night. A good place to buy these is One Stop Bedwetting. I wish you well.

[Princess-P]

Agreed, making someone do something they dont want to do and don't consent to is abuse. Just be a use you CAN make someone because your bigger and stronger doesn't mean you should.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

It would be nice if the OP came back to better define the nature of their relationship, im certainly not advocating anybody to force their partner to do anything. But sounds like they live together and have an established caregiver/little dynamic.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

It would be nice if the OP came back to better define the nature of their relationship, im certainly not advocating anybody to force their partner to do anything. But sounds like they live together and have an established caregiver/little dynamic.

Oh no I don't think anyone thinks you're advocating for abuse. Just many people very unfamiliar with DDlg come here and I wanted to clear that up.

[DaddyZach]

There is no way I would abuse my little or give her drugs. She finds them uncomfortable to lie in and she doesn't like waking up to a really wet diaper

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

There is no way I would abuse my little or give her drugs. She finds them uncomfortable to lie in and she doesn't like waking up to a really wet diaper

Okay so this makes perfect sense to me. There are things I don't like sleeping in. So I get it.

 

Here is my advice. Get some disposable bed pads and lay them on the bed. This will absorb the urine some. Another option for her is a regular pad. Although this won't absorb much and she will need to get up every few hours to change it.

 

Is she medically incontinent?

[Beau-Bear]

Yeah she is from an accident. Bed pads would probably be the best option