is your ddlg life kept secret ?

[Little G]

Edited April 23, 2017 by LittleG

[ThePrincessMinMin]

Edited April 23, 2017 by ThePrincessMinMin

[bethany_p]

It's definitely a big secret for me. I don't live with my mom anymore, but I still see her often. I try to engage my little side some around her, but I try not to go too far. I don't think she'd understand. She knows my Daddy too, but only as my boyfriend. It's tough sometimes when I need little care while visiting her like a diaper change, but we do our best.

[Little Illy]

My Daddy is very open with himself and who he is. By proxy, a couple of his brothers and good friends have a very clear idea what transpires between us. I know he has told a very close friend and brother (with my consent) but he honestly doesn't actively hide it. Only when I ask him to. 

 

But for me, it is a highly guarded secret. I have only told 1 good friend of mine that I call him Daddy. I'm not sure if she is informed on the dynamic, but she knows I'm heavily into BDSM and can connect dots. Other than that, I hide. Moreso, my little is only able to be expressed when it is just Daddy and myself. I have an alpha side that can't be pushed aside in social/professional situations. Of course Daddy is still in charge, I'm just "big" during those times.

 

I don't hide it at home cuz I live with my daddy but if someone is coming over I'm not gonna be in my little clothes. I don't really understand why I would tell my family and friends about this? Like what I do sexually is only between me and my bf/daddy. Like why would anyone in an "normal" relationship tell their mom or friends that they enjoy anal?!

 

For a lot of littles, the dynamic isn't just sexual. Its a whole lifestyle that just happens to have transitive properties to sex. Coloring, wearing certain clothes/hairstyles, wearing diapers during the day, using child cups, plates, etc and just overall conducting one's behaviors such as a child is the lifestyle. DDlg obviously has a heavy presence during sex, but that isn't all its about for some. Actually, I've seen a poll (On Fet) where most littles are asexual or wont have sex while being little.

[jaredstone363]

I keep it secret from my family but my good friends all know. I live alone so when family comes over, I put all the little stuff in a box and put it back out when they leave. 

[Guest Barefootgirl]

I just moved back to this state and have made friends through local munches, so they are aware. While living with my parents I didn't try to hide too much. Everyone knows about Piglet and when I am stressed I will put it in my dress pocket to squeeze. If tgey think it's strange, they've never said. As someone has mentioned, adult coloring books are "in" so it's great to be able to do that... and I still have young children sooooooo... I can get away with things.

 

But, all of my life I've had stuffies, I am "great around young children" (my ex was so vanilla lol) so had a little daycare for a while. There was a time as a teenager and young adult that I talked as a little ... but, so did my mom! I get away with alot of things just be being myself. I owe noone an explanation.

 

Love me or leave me ... lol

[HisuianLilligant]

Mine is not hidden at all. I live with my father and sister and I tell them anything I feel they should know, as they are non judgmental. I walk around the house with my paci and sippy cup perfectly comfortably, and they've even given me toys as gifts because they know, so I guess I'm pretty lucky

[Yourminnie]

I know my family wouldn't understand.  I have friends i can talk about kinks openly but i think only one of my friends know im into this

[beta pegasi]

I used to keep this secret, but I want to be more open about this. I have 3 friends who know and I just recently told my sister and she was totally okay with me being a little. I've been thinking about telling my mom b/c I know she won't judge me and for some reason I feel like she kinda already knows.. But I'd never tell my dad, I know he wouldn't be ok with this b/c I think he's still not ok with me being a pansexual.. 

Edited May 8, 2017 by lysitheea

[Guest ScreamingSalad]

My best friends and a few of their siblings know. And a few people around my old school know too. I could never ever tell my family. Ever. They get upset when I have stuffies and before I got into ddlg I still loved baby spoons and cartoons and they made/make fun of me. They saw something a with bdsm on TV and they just yelled and were totally disgusted and I still live at home so I try not to leave my room with my stuffies but if I'm little and I can avoid my family I'll have my paci and I'll slip it into my bra if someone shows up.

[littlesuzy]

my family found out and they don't look at me the same way they think its wrong they put me therapy once to get it fix

 

my friends found out but they were okay with it

[Chicki]

IRL yes, mostly. Actually people may assume but I haven't mentioned it. Most of my social media has it on there though.

[kittybaby]

All of my daddys friends play into it I'm nit even sure if they know I'm a true ddlg but they know I'm a cat girl tho.

 

they try to help me since I'm so clutzy, one made me use a sippy type water bottle since I spill, they baby talk me sometimes, in jest but still. I've even gotten toys. Even from the one that wouldnt ever find me attractive cuz I'm to chubby for him.(Daddys best tho!!!!!)But all of them are pretty innocent guys that only play video games and work which i do to but I'm a filthy casual.

 

Everyone else justs thinks I'm silly and bubbly.

[kittybaby]

Oh and then there are daddys parents. He live with them to help take care of his mother who is on oxygen for idk what. We kept it pretty basic at home and go to hotel rooms for really kinky stuff where I can scream my little heart out. No pacis to hide my sippy are a joke and look like water bottles. But hello kitty doh! But I'm just cute bubbly and loyal to him and they love me.

[PrincessCupcake25]

I've always been like a big child to my family, so when I go over with my blankie, a stuffie, and a Disney movie they don't think anything of it. Nobody knows aside from my Husband.. They all just think its normal of me.

[Hisprincesss]

People know I have a girlish side. But not that I have a Daddy.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

My social circle is small... most know i am a sub - only a few know I am Little. I dont hide it - My Mom knows and sends me links to cute little stuff all the time - tags me in stuff on Facebook, etc. If people come into my room they will see my stuffies and Pacis on display. I have Monster high stuff everywhere etc.. Its normally just "That's Evangeline - She's like 5 yrs old in her head" so no explanation is needed. 

[Guest]

For the most part I'm private about it. Not from shame but because I know how easy it is for guys to hear about what I am and such and they pretend to be something they are not. So I guess you can call it protective more then private. I am proud to be a sub and a little. I think as time goes by the more comfortable I get with telling people about my lifestyle. I learned that they can accept it or not but it will have no effect on my decisions.

[LittleMissSquish]

I keep mine deeply under wraps, when i can feel myself slipping into little "mode" (I struggle with entering little space so its not the same but close) my "big" self will pull me out of it. Im incredibly easy to embarass and mt family made it a habit to grind me into the dirt for everything that makes me different from who they want me to be.

 

However because Ive always been "childish" no one really notices.