Naturals

[LilTea]

A year ago I met the most amazing man. He does whatever he can to protect me and to take care of my every need. I always thought he was much more than just gentlemanly. He's chivalrous yes, but somehow it's more. He's protective and he coddles me. He buys me teddy bears, frilly white ankle socks, bubble bath, he puts me on his knee and holds me. I never have to worry or wonder about him, he's always there and I feel so safe. He brings my lunch to work to me every day, he will put my shoes on my feet and often he'll even feed me food right off his dinner plate.

 

I have always had a thing for playtime and often have laughed at my own childish Ness. I love play-doh and colouring. Playing in the bathtub. Sucking my man's thumb. Curling up at his feet with my head on his knee. When my man is away from home I wear his shirt and sleep on his side of the bed. I beg him to read aloud to me. And...my pet name for him has always been Daddy. He calls me Peanut lol.

 

Over the past year I've been consciously trying to not act like such a kid. I love him and wanted him to love the woman I am. I insisted for months that he treat me as independent (I'll open my own car door thank you)! I noticed he changed then... he still loved me but he seemed sad. I don't like it when he is sad.

 

Not knowing much about BDSM lifestyle we thought we'd investigate after a particularly erotica spanking he gave me. It was the 1st time he did that, I deserved it because I was being a brat, and boy did he give it. Only recently we learnt about DDlg and we both are so shocked at how natural living this is for us. I am so thankful that we some how found one another. Nothing we do is an act, it's so naturally us. I realize how wrong it was to try fight it... when I was insisting on be 'the boss' and being treated like a strong independent woman. Not only did it hurt him to not be able to care for me, it hurt me because I was always pushing him away. What I know now is that I am a strong independent woman... a woman whose inner little girl gets to play and be innocent. I'm thankful for all the great DDlg resources I found. It explains so much.

 

Once we opened up about our needs we were able to see how compatible we are. Once we found the DDlg literature we were able to understand how natural this is for us and we've started to live this rather than play at it once and awhile. We are getting married in 2 days! Being his wife will not change that he is my Sweet Man... my Daddy.

 

I'm wondering about other Daddys and their little girls. How did you meet? Were you naturals or how did you come to the lifestyle? If you've been together awhile how has your relationship changed if at all. Most of all I would like to say thank you to all who share, here and everywhere, as it was with the shared stories that I was able to truly understand that I am not abnormal and accept me (and my Daddy) for who we are.

[Guest Daddy'sShyKitten]

It's so great that you've found someone that makes you happy like this! :33


My Daddy and I have been together for about a year and some months now. I discovered DDlg a few years ago(on Tumblr, of course), but didn't really try to pursue it until late 2016. My Daddy knows I'm very submissive and I think I've called him Daddy for almost as long as he and I have been together. When I first brough up DDlg to him, he wasn't really keen on it. I think he had a lot of misconceptions about the dynamic, and the littles in the dynamic, so he basically pushed it off the table. A couple months ago, though, he accepted it and asked me to be his little girl. Now, I personally believe I've always been his little girl, but now things are official. I feel that the DDlg dynamic has in a way brought us closer together. It has also lead to us exploring the possibility of other kinds of kinks. 

[LittlePupRune]

My relationship I'd say was a mixture of both. I naturally fell into the caregiver role and my partner into the bratty little, but we didn't call it that. We actually started as a D/s couple, and I didn't know much about cg/l so didn't really think about getting into it. But looking back our dynamic was already there, we just didn't use the terms. She jokingly started calling me "Daddy" and over time it grew on us to where I started researching the cg/l community and figured out that thats what we already had, so why not explore it even more.

[Chicki]

I've always been child like even before I knew ddlg and such were a thing. So yes, it's extremely natural for me and it's what I am as a person and I'm NOT good at being a typical adult lol.

[DaddyCj86]

I was a DD before I knew there was such a thing. Life has gotten much better since I discovered DD/lg and have fully moved into my place in the lifestyle

[SkunkPrincess]

It's really nice to hear that you both found your way into the DDLG world and I'm very happy to hear you are going to marry your Daddy! I wish you both lots of luck!

 

Anyways, I always wanted to be a little, cute girl. I was the 'scary tomboy goth girl' type, but well...that changed after a while. My ex (who was abusive) didn't like it that I always acted like a little girl. My current dom is the sweetest man I've ever met! 

 

I found out about DDLG when I was looking at kittenplay related images on Pinterest. I've always had an interest in the BDSM world, especially in kittenplay. Oh well, I saw some posts that were DDLG related and I tought they were cute, they fitted me aswell. So I sended some of those pics and my boyfriend (now my sir) really liked them and said they fitted us very well.

Later, I did some research, found this forum and well...told my boyfriend about DDLG and surprisingly he liked it. We were already a kind of DDLG couple. I behaved like a little girl, he would buy me teddy bears, dress me up, take care of me etc. Now I've been into a DDLG relationship for about a year. It really made my current situation better and I cannot imagine a life without DDLG!

[LittleBlackRose]

To be perfectly honest, I've always been a little eccentric and childish in a fun way. My friends have always enjoyed my tendency to do "silly" things as an adult like draw on sidewalks, blow bubbles, and color. That said, I had no idea this was a dynamic until about a month ago. I was in my first D/s relationship and he already knew I was a little having had other little subs before. He let me explore things and sort of discover it on my own. I thought he would burst from happiness when I brought it up.

 

The only challenge was that I am a non-sexual little so it became a piece of our D/s relationship. He would do things like take me to the zoo, build blanket forts, or treat me with a stuffie while I still spent an almost equal time "big." He really enjoyed both sides.

 

I know that was a little convoluted as far as answering the question. Yes, I would say it was a natural thing on my part. He was already experienced so I can't answer for him.

 

Congratulations on your marriage. I wish you many happy years together.