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My daddy and i have been in a sorta ldr for about a year now

I love him with all my heart and i just really need a daddy's perspective to help me please

He has been more busy with work lately and i try not to act overly clingy becuase he gets upset that he knows im pulling for attention he doesnt have the time to give me. But on the other hand he gets upset when he feels as if im being distant becuase ive been harassing him less or am less apt to reply in .05 seconds becuase i know ill be waiting 20 minutes or an hour for my next reply

 

Hopefully i worded that all in a way that makes sense

I just need advice on how to find a balance and keep my daddy happy without suffocating him plz n thx

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Posted

You worded it just fine, it makes sense. What doesn't make sense is his behaviour. Maybe you two should figure out a happy medium, or maybe schedule certain times for just "checking in" with each other when life gets hectic.

Guest MeneerM
Posted

I read from your post that you both are in need for attention, but not always at the same time. Scheduling time together is crucial. When you can agree on times when you both are available for each other and time you both are not available. This way you can manage expectations. Managing one another expectations is crucial in any relationship. 

Good Luck!

Guest DadTeddy
Posted (edited)

Long distance is not an excuse , im sorry to say that to you  7 hours timezone difference yet managed to skype 2 times a day and text back even when working a fulltime job , consistent for 2 years till now .

Edited by DadTeddy

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