How do other littles cope with big going for a while?

[ChibiPuppy]

Normally it wouldn't really be a problem. But when I am in littlespace and mommy goes to bed or to school, or something else, it's really hard for me and I almost always end up crying and feel lost and lonely for a while. I imagine it'd be easier if I had some friends on Skype or something that are okay and happily play along with my little space in a voice call, but I have no one like that so I wouldn't know. What do the rest of you do? Am I the only one feeling this way?

[Guest Ginger]

I usually try to occupy myself. Coloring, reading, watching tv, a bubble bath, sometimes cooking. Just things I know that'll keep me occupied until I get to see him again Typically I don't see him much throughout the week so I have to make due with sporadic messages but I know he's busy, so it isn't quite as upsetting.

[Daisy_Kitten]

A good idea would be to ask your mommy to give you something to do, like a simple task during the day.  Examples are drawing her a pretty picture, or tidying up your living space.  Just being told to do something small by your mommy/daddy can really help you be happy in littlespace while you are alone, because you know that doing the task would make them proud of you!  If not, what Ginger says above works just as well!  I tend to  watch cartoons when I'm feeling lonely, or talk with my stuffies. 

[ChibiPuppy]

All good advice, thank you both ♥

[sarina]

I don't live with my daddy by now, anytime he goes back to his home I feel depressed and suddenly out of my little space.. Sometimes it's like I can go into my little space only around him and I end up crying when it's bedtime because I feel alone. also I don't have any little friends or someone who knows about ddlg

[Guest Wolfsbabylove]

I don't know if I can be of any help, but anytime I have to be big it drains me. I am very capable of being a big girl but at the end of the day I spend at least a few hours being little.If I don't then I will start feeling strange by the end of the week. My safest place to do that is my bedroom. Ill watch cartoons or a documentary,read, draw,take a bubble bath, or even play video games. Whatever I'm in the mood for. I suppose I could do that anywhere in my apartment but whatever. lol Point of the story is taking time to indulge in Littlespace is very important.

As far as being alone, sometimes I like it and some times I don't, I have cried simply because Daddy had to go to work! But occupying your mind would help alot. Making friends that know about your lifestyle would help too. I don't have Little friends but I do have a friend that knows about DD/lg and she sends me cute memes and we talk about movies and games. Simple things like that do help.

[PrincessAsha]

I try not to focus on it really I just think about daddy but that doesn't really help

[1FinePieceofAce]

When Daddy leaves I like to keep myself busy. I will write in my journal, color, watch netflix, draw pictures, make lists (favorite foods, favorite movies, tv shows, characters). Daddy will give me writing prompts if I'm bored, and sometimes if he can't think of anything, I get lines....sooo I try to keep myself busy so I don't need to write the same thing 500 times lol. I also like to play with make up, do my hair, paint my nails. If I find the time, I like baking pies and cookies for Daddy too! I get all excited if I know he's coming home and I have made him a special treat. <3 And on the nights I make sweets, he normally makes dinner so I don't have to be out of my little space!