I think Im a little?

[TeachersPet]

Hi everyone.
I fairly new to all this.
I have been doing a lot of reserch to figure myself out and I think I might be a little, or maybe a middle.
Im not really sure.
I have a partner, and Im not sure if he will understand, but right now Im not worrying about that, i just want to figure myself out.

So when Im going into my space, I feel young, like 9 or 10 years old. I want my teddy, i want to watch cartoons, and wear fluffy comfy clothes. I love it when my partner cuddles me, he is bigger than me and I feel really safe and happy when he holds me.

But then I get into another space and I feel like im 15 or 16ish. I get dressed up all slutty (for lack of a better word), get the make up on, the short shorts and tank top, and wanna go out drinking and partying.

Is it possible to be both a little and a middle?

Also, some advice on how to talk to my partner about this would be nice.
He is very vanilla and we have only been together for less than 6 months.
I dont want him to try to be sexual about this, I just want him to understand and be involved with helping me feel happy and safe when I get in these spaces.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I don't age play, I'm just naturally child-like so "little age" is a difficult concept for me. For purposes of references my Daddy (also my husband) and I have put myself in the age range of roughly 10-16, I could go as young as 8 but generally around 12-14 on average. I don't like revealing clothing, but I'm not super duper young either. Little things excite me. I'm argumentative at times, enjoy playing around and cuddling. I absolutely love stuffed animals, I use one as a pillow every night and cuddle with one as well. I'm giggly and bubbly.

 

I very much think it's possible to be both:

[TeachersPet]

Thanks for the reply

Daddy's_Babygirl <3

Did your Daddy have knowledge of DD/lg before you got together? Or was it something you explored together?
 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

 

Thanks for the reply Daddy's_Babygirl <3

 

Did your Daddy have knowledge of DD/lg before you got together? Or was it something you explored together?

 

Oh no... we explored it together. Neither one of us had knowledge. I was just shy of 19 when Daddy and I got together and only had one prior relationship. Daddy had had a few and had a very basic knowledge of kink and BDSM but nothing of DDlg.

[Antoinette]

Hello! 

Like Babygirl, I also naturally just feel little so I don't pin an age on myself - if you do, that's fine! It's helpful for some people to do so, especially when they're only just discovering and researching DD/lg, in order to get a feel of what works for them and what doesn't.

 

When my daddy and I started dating I slowly introduced him to the lifestyle, told him what it meant to me, what I was into and what I wasn't and then I also did something else - I asked him to take a BDSM test (if you're not aware of the test here is the link: https://bdsmtest.org/). I'm not gonna lie, I was astonished at how vanilla it was. It was a really high percentage. But, I loved this guy - I wanted to make it work. So I helped him understand more about BDSM (in general), but specifically DD/lg. He wanted to know more, of course - which is important, if your partner doesn't want to, you can't force them. 

 

What I'm trying to say is that just because someone seems vanilla it doesn't necessarily limit them. I helped my daddy uncover his dominant, daddy side and I believe that a lot of 'vanilla' people probably do lean either dom or sub but just haven't explored it so vanilla is all they know. Also, another note - vanilla is not a dirty word! Being vanilla isn't bad just like how being 'kinky' isn't bad. Different strokes, ya know. 

 

I suggest just talking to the guy about what DD/lg is to you, give him other sources to look upon, tell him what you do/don't like and also possibly ask him to take a BDSM test if he's comfortable (if you haven't taken one you should! Super interesting to see the results, imo). 

 

Good luck!

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Every Little is different. Some Little's have LittleAges, some don't. Some have a small age range, some have a big age range. Some Littles are DD/LG, Some Littles are AB/DL, Some Littles are AgePlayers. Some are all three, some are mixed. Some have a baby "age" but don't like those baby things. Some have a older "age" and likes younger things still. Some Littles like Caregivers, Some Littles like Littles. Some Littles are Subs others are Doms. Some Littles are Switches. Some Littles are sexual. Some Littles are asexual. Some Littles will be sexual in LittleSpace and others would never dream of being sexual in LittleSpace in a million trillion years! Some Littles are just childish people that enjoy childish things, their not into BDSM, age regression or does it have anything to do with sexual things or romantic feelings. Every one is different. No one is the same. What works for one won't always be true for another. All you have to do is be honesty and true to yourself, and your doing things right. It's your life. Live it your way.