Talking little advice/help

[Kinkywinkylittle]

I've found some great videos that have given a lot of ideas but I feel like those are more for in the bedroom and want to know what is done to talk more littler. Do I have to put on an accent or lisp or say basic things (not in an insulting way)? Communication isn't my strongest ability but I'm working on and just want to start as small as possible I guess. I don't really know. I thought id post here and see what turns up. Is this something I should discuss with Daddy and find out what he wants or just find it on my own and run with it?

[Whispering-oak]

hello.

    LITTLE  is not about movies and putting on a show for everyone.. some littles talk toddler talk .. .that is who they are when they go into little mode.. you  need to spend some time researching being little .. .find who you are and what you need exactly.. do you want a mom or dad.. or a caregiver..you don't change to be what daddy wants you are who you are and any DD will accept that if they are truly a DD. if you just want role play then that is something that might be suitable for a BDSM relationship... READ the rules of the chat and what is acceptable and not acceptable in chat.. how to talk to others privately.. and if you have any problems then talk to anyone who's name is blue in writing as they are the mods and they will direct you to the answers you need.. know yourself to know who you are as a Little...

WO  aka: John

[cuppycakes]

I know your question is about how to speak, but I'm kind of confused on why you need to ask. I tend to speak differently when I'm feeling little, just because I do. It's not really a conscious thing that I'm trying to specifically talk "little". (Like @Whispering-oak said, "that is who they are when they go into little mode")

 

I think that if you want to talk little, then just do it the way you want, whichever way makes you feel good. If you don't do a voice, then you probably don't need one.

If you're doing it to please your daddy, then ask him what he wants. (though I don't recommend it. I don't know how to explain it, but it just seems like if you're going to do something in littlespace, then you should do it because you want to do it, not just because your daddy likes it. That's like asking a middle to act younger, or asking someone to use diapers, even if they don't like it.)

 

There's also the possibility that you think a voice might help you get into littlespace more easily, and to that I just say "you do you". The voice you naturally go to in littlespace seems like your best bet (even if it's not any different from your normal voice). Don't stress it, and just have fun! ♥

[Himedere-Chan]

I just talk in a higher pitch. Everyone has their own way of being little, just figure out what way YOU want to talk little.

[alotalittle]

I know there's many littles on here to have their "little voice" and many who do not and I think both of those things are completely normal. I don't have what I would call a full-on "little voice", but my voice gets softer with a slightly more feminine tone when I feel little. This is simply the voice that comes most naturally to me when I'm in little space. 

 

If you really want a "little voice" because you think it would help you get more into your own little space, then my advice is to try to spend more time in little space. I know that seems counterintuitive, but the more time you spend in little space, the more likely you are to find the voice that comes more naturally to you.

 

Don't be hard on yourself if it turns out that you don't have much of a "little voice" though. It doesn't make you any more or less of a little.

[Ariana]

My "little voice" just comes naturally, I don't even notice I'm doing it. You might even already have a "little voice" that you haven't noticed when in little space. I'd say just be you and do what feels right and makes you comfortable   

 

I don't recommend putting on a voice just because your daddy says he likes it either. 

[Kinkywinkylittle]

OK I think I understand a bit more. Its a subtle thing. I guess I should ask Daddy if he can tell when I'm in little mode rather than ask him what he likes best cuz that's where my insecurities lie. Then again I'm pretty much on the precipice of little mode most all the time aside from talking to family and being out in public.

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

The biggest "tip" I could give you is don't worry about how you sound. Stop worrying about sounding silly or saying something "dumb" when you speak. And just let what naturally comes out when you talk happen.

 

It's not something I think about or try to make happen just happens naturally

I has a cute voice(probably what most other call Little Voice) that happens when I'm excited, happy, playful, extra sleepy, sad/upset, but this is something that has always naturally happened my whole life. It's simply something I didn't "grow out of" I does has my own personal "Little Language"(like most others) But this isn't something I put thought into and sat down and planed out. It's they way I've always naturally talked, it's something I never "grew out of" From the age of learning how to speak properly til now I often mix the two together.

 

I have my own issues and junk, but unlike most people, I don't care what the mass populous of the world thinks of me. I was raised to enjoy the things I enjoy and be myself regardless of other peoples thoughts. Meaning as a child I didn't care what people thought about how I looked, what I was doing, or if I sounded stupid. Meaning, I never forced myself to give up anything as a child. Weather other children my age liked what I liked or I liked what they liked. It didn't matter to me, if I was happy with how I looked or what I was doing, well that's all that matter. And well that's all that matters. You do things in your life to be happy. Being you is what makes people happy. But most people have a hard time getting past the "embarrassment" of what others might think.