Meeting DDLG in real life

[Guest TheBrokenAngel]

Im just wondering if it possible or if anyone has actualy met people at the bar school etc who are DDLG and how

[Biscuits]

Some people really give it away, some don't. Being a gay little, it's become actually fairly easy for me to spot both. I have gay-dar and, well, little-dar I guess.

 

The first person I ever met that I knew was a little was this girl back in my high school. She went through partners like a guy at a hot dog eating contest, but then she got with a "bad boy". All the nice guys weren't anything to her, but this guy, he dominated her. After maybe another few months, they were still together, and I openly asked her if she's a little. She didn't know what that is, but when I described the entire thing to her she realized that it's exactly what they've been doing. 

 

I met another little at the LV Pride Parade, she was my partner for the entire march and just the way she talked, it was like speaking with a preschooler, so that was an easy give away. I, of course, asked her to confirm.

 

I then met another little at my shooting range. Pink bow, pink quiver, pink arrows, I thought it was cute. Yet, like the last girl, I quickly found out why she liked pink so much. She also spoke sort of childish, and when I asked her, she said she was.

 

I am not as keen with picking out dominants since I have no experience truly being one, but yes, it is very possible to randomly meet people out in the world who are in this community.

 

Love,

Biscuits   

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I have yet to meet anyone out in the community who is, I have however spotted what I suspect to be some D/s couples. I have pretty intense social anxiety so my Daddy and I tend to stay out of bars and public scenes so there's that.

[IchigoHime]

A good portion of the people I know in DDlg, I met before even knowing they were into it. I guess you just go for people with personalities you click with and there's a higher chance you will find people into the same things as you. My ex- Daddy, my Protector, his little, my Sissy, and another friend, I knew them all and then found out that they liked the same things.

 

But haha little-dar does help. My Protector has an eye for littles.

[princess.w/2]

Well... we didnt meet out in public but we met online but not in a ddlg tyoe group... just a dating app...and after messaging it stood out to him that i was very submissive

[SweetKitten]

me and five of my friends are littles, we were at my house and i accidentally slipped into little space and eventually so did they

[Vince]

I think a few of my coworkers are, I recognize several traits or habits that art very littlish at least.

[Princess-P]

I met my Daddy by being co workers. Something clicked between us and this lifestyle has always been who we are. I've yet to meet anyone else in person who follow the lifestyle similar to us but have met many who dabble in it or role play.

[Frog]

I haven't approached anyone, but I have a couple friends I suspect are middles, possibly littles. I've met a few couples who I think act like they have a sort of d/s relationship, but I feel like I'm prying.

[Guest Ginger]

I have my Master who I met at work and my former roommate.

 

Master was almost blatantly obvious with it lmao calling me little one, little girl, etc at work (no one batted an eye; it's typical really since I'm the smallest girl there) and then when we finally went out, certain things he did. He didn't seem surprised when I brought it up at all when we finally started fasting and we both fell right into step, so to speak.

 

As for my former roommate, she spoke about it out in the open all the time. Had two daddies when she lived here, etc etc.

 

Out here in Japan though it's hard to spot otherwise because of how a large percentage of the people behave naturally.

[Little_Ghoul]

I have a better D/s-dar then a little-dar although I suspect a lot of people are into this type of lifestyle in my area. I live in a part open place. Once you know what you're looking for you tend to see it everywhere. 

[Rantanplan]

I met a probably 25 year old woman on the train. She was sucking on her thumb and had small blue towels with lots of fringes with her. She played with the towels in a babyish and clearly unusual way.

I really wanted to talk to her, but my daughters were sitting right next to me. So, I didn’t and hoped to see her again. It never happened. Sometimes I try to figure out what I should have done instead.

[DollDirector]

As Emma337 says, "once you know what you're looking for you tend to see it everywhere".

 

But it's important not to let one's desire lead you to see things that are not there.

Pink is trending at the moment and that's unhelpful because it used to be remarkable,and now you're sometimes wondering if a woman is saying something or if it's just fashion !

Fortunately,I have noticed that persons who have any stronger than average dress codes,are generally willing to answer any question about it.

What's also fortunate is that females will always find a way to convey a message,it seems; Just seen,worn at work,a sober,elegant collar with a slightly childish touch about it. 

[Guest x77]

My daddy says he's seen a few clg couples in New York, he meets a lot of people daily in his line of work and the Little was throwing a fit and openly calling her partner Daddy. In New York and Washington there's quite a bit of Cgl and master/ pet couples. I've seen a lot of girls with collars even getting walked around in Seattle.

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

I haven't seen anything down here in Georgia but I know one guy that asked me if I was a Dom so I imagine if he knows what it is he probably is one

[FunFriendly2017]

I'd love to meet a girl IRL

[Frog]

I'd love to meet a girl IRL

Since this thread isn't for that, why not try the Personals section?

[Soft Daddy]

when i was in school, i had a friend who was that way with her partner and actually helped introduce me to the community, she didnt call him daddy openly but you could see the dynamic in their relationship
 

 

flashforward to now and i actually met my own little bunny through twitter because we both liked the same band. she ended up going into little space while talking to me one day and i kind of recognized and just helped take care of her. i found out a few weeks later she didnt really know much about it but the more we've talked and i've explained, the more shes realized things. 
 

so, yes, its very possible. i think it tends to be difficult to see sometimes of course because not everyone wants to be open about it in case of judgement.