My daddy doesn't like me being a baby

[LittleAgenderPrincess]

So it's my first time having a proper daddy/mommy (they're female but I use both terms) and she doesn't like me wearing diapers, wanting a binky and doesn't want to do things like do the voices for my stuffies.. any advice on how I can either fulfill that part without bothering daddy or how I can convince her?

[LittleNanette]

well you could talk to her, but you can't really force her to do that. If she doesn't like it at all i don't think there is much to do, but you could maybe find other things that you both enjoy

[ddlgdude]

Yeah  i would talk to her and try to find a compromise. Sometimes a lot of aspect of ddlg aren't appealing to people but if you care about them, you can talk and work together. A compromise isnt bad as long as both parties are willing to give or take a bit out of it.  You might not be able  to do all the things you love to do while in littlespace but Im sure you rather have that and be able to be their baby than not having them in your life and being someone elses. So please try to talk to them and see if you can find the middle ground.

[Whispering-oak]

hi.... i am going to assume that this is a new relationship because you didn't say how long you have been together..there are three ways this could end up...1) you two have a chat together and set your likes and dislikes on the table, then you work together and find the middle ground where you both will be happy...If the Caregiver is unwilling to work with you or compromise then you or they are not going to be happy and the relationship will probably fail. 2) the caregiver is unwilling to discuss the matter and states you will do it her way... this is a Dom/Dome/submissive relationship and if that is what you want then there are not problems... but if you are wanting a DD/lg relationship then you are in trouble from the word go.. 3) you stop and evaluate what you want in a DD/lg relationship ... gather information from other Little's and DD's then make an informed decision on how you want to proceed with your relationship..

     Being little is who you are ... you do not need to change one thing about who you are as a little.. if you want a paci ... fine it is OK... if you want to wear diapers and soil them then fine... that is your choice... realize that sometimes some of the things a little chooses make it harder to  find a DD but patience is worth the wait..... i would suggest that you take the time to search your heart and define who the little is inside of you then reflect on the things mentioned above and even though you are little, make a wise choice as to your happiness..

WO  aka: John

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

You don't need your caregiver to do anything you want in little space. You can be little on your own. If you like these things and your partner doesn't, do them without her. Also it's said here time and time again, but communicate. Tell her why these things are important, and see if you can come to a compromise. Be completely open and honest about it and have the conversation as adults on equal ground. You need to also understand though that she doesn't have to like these things, and that's okay. If you can't live without them, do them on their own.

 

Personally I don't like these things and I don't age play. My personality is just very child-like, but I can't even give myself a valid little age as it's so fluid. When we started DDlg my Daddy and I said no pacis or diapers. A few weeks in I discovered the benefits of a paci for oral fixation and we discussed it. I used one a bit, but for a month or so now I haven't even touched it. I've decided it's not much my thing.