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I've always been into bdsm but I've never had a guy that was into it...recently I met a guy that is into DD/lg and the more I read the more it fits me, except age play...I really feel like im to mature for that (and please I'm not bashing I respect anyones lifestyle) I'm into all the other things just not being treated like a child.... idk if this guy wants that or not..we've discussed a lot of things about it but I've been to scared to bring this up..

I just dont know if i should bring it up or just wait for him to...

 

And I know he wants me to but i cannot bring myself to call him daddy..even though I want to so idk why

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There are many other things you can call him like for me aside from daddy I like being called sir and daddy bear

 

As for the age play it is best to express your concerns with him before you get into a relationship

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I'd be open and honest now rather than later about what you want and don't. There is nothing wrong with not being into age play, it's certainly not for everyone. Hopefully he can meet you on the same plain and everything will work out. More you communicate the better.

 

As for calling him Daddy, if you want to all you can do is start. Try writing it or speaking it in third person. It can be kind of embarrassing at first. But if it's something you want, only you can make it happen. Good luck!

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Hey there, what would you recommend as the best baby steps for beginners?? I would really love to try dd/lg relationship with my boyfriend but I am not sure he feels 100% this way. I know he isnt against trying it (he already calls me baby girl and is treating me like one - and he agreed with bondage) but I don't want to push him too hard. I want to try something to find out if this is what we want. What do you think is the best thing to start with? I appreciate your ideas, thank you!

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Hello Princess W/2

     Just because you like the age you are at, doesn't mean that you can't enjoy the dynamics of DD/lg... you can stay the age you are now, no matter what his age is... you don't have to call him Daddy if your uncomfortable with that... Just be respectful in how you interact with him... sit down and talk with him, tell him your boundaries and what you will and won't do... you should be able to talk like the adult or the "age" you choose for yourself and work to an agreement that both can accept... If he won't allow you to be yourself at the age you choose, then it will not work.... it is not his choice what your age is ....IT IS YOUR CHOICE AND HE MUST ACCEPT THAT.... be true to yourself and don't change to make someone happy... you are perfect just the way you are ....

WO  aka: John

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