feeling shy

[littlemoonbug]

when others are in little space do you guys feel more shy or blushy? idk if it's because Daddy and i just started but i get really shy. and whenever i'm with him i'm always in a little space, is that bad? i'm so glad knowing there's a community here with people who are also in these types of relationships. sometimes i feel like i'm doing something "wrong". but i know i'm not, its natural for people to want to be nurtured and for others to nurture and i don't think that should end during "adulthood". 6 am thoughts

[LittleNanette]

well how about you talk to him and maybe together you can find a way he can get you to open up a little in littlespace and shy isn't always bad! it can be cute

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Are you asking if we feel shy/blushy/embarrassed when other people are in Little Space around you, when /you/ are in little space? Because I think that's relatively normal. It's a vulnerable part of yourself, and you are experiencing vulnerable parts of other people!

[Guest BabyGlitterMilk]

I'm generally a shy person when interacting face-to-face. This intensifies when I'm in littlespace, ESPECIALLY if in an intimate setting. It's really up to you whether to work to overcome that aspect of yourself, or work with it to your advantage. I'm kind of doing both, trying to not be so shy in adult life, and turn that shyness into cute charm in my little life.

[MisterMomo]

Hi! For me it is the opposite. When I am more adulting I can be very shy do to more silly stuff, to dance or participate in silly games. I am polite when meeting people, but inhibited in general.

 

The more I am in little space, the less I care about what people thinks and the more I can do this stuff. Mommy realized it. I then can take silly pictures or dance and have fun without being shy. I am shy with stranger like a kid.... but I am way more open to fun and relaxed when little!

[Guest banana]

I am shy in general when I don't know someone very well and at first I was shy with my daddy. In little space I can be shy in the sense that I tend to not take initiatives and ask for my daddy's permission for almost anything ^^" But I can also be silly and not care about anything ^^ I think it just depends on the person, but don't worry you're not weird  

[Guest ZuZu420]

I'm pretty shy sometimes with my Daddy.. But when we're on skype he doesn't let me get away with things like hiding behind my stuffies..he knows when I'm fully little mode and encourages it..makes it feel like a positive happy space for me..I know its not easy but once you do start opening up you'll really enjoy sharing your little space with him..its also fun to have a few little friends you feel comfortable with cuz for me being around other littles brings out my littleness more and I dont worry so much if I'm doing something odd or weird cuz my little friends accept all of my randomness weather I'm adult me or little me..