Starting to feel lonely without a Daddy

[LittleBabygirlQuinn]

So I've never had a Daddy before but I'm really starting to feel lonely without one. I've been wanting to slip into little space a lot  lately, but I feel like I can't really do so when I'm having to take care of me self. I want cuddles and Daddy kisses. What should I do?

[sighing]

Maybe you could try to find some Littles to befriend so you guys can go into Littlespace and play together. Don't lose hope! You'll find someone eventually.

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

i know how you feel, i really want a daddy too but i try and be little alone. I have a couple little friends as well as i try and put some little time into each day.

[submissiveboyjimmy]

It's hard for me to feel little alone, I want to learn to feel little without a mommy or caregiver.  All I do is burrito under blankets and color.  Little friends might help though, a lot of people have given me that advice!  You're in the right place

[Guest Little Bee]

So I've never had a Daddy before but I'm really starting to feel lonely without one. I've been wanting to slip into little space a lot lately, but I feel like I can't really do so when I'm having to take care of me self. I want cuddles and Daddy kisses. What should I do?

I feel the same from time to time. Especially when stressed out about life and all I want to do is go into little space, and when I'm exhausted it's hard for me to take care of myself and I'd always wish so bad that someone can take care of me.

 

But as sighing said ^ having little friends to talk to or finding littles locally can help. For me, when I'm alone and I feel lonely and I go into little space, being under my blankie and being comfy in bed can help. Or doing stuff that makes me feel happy as a little or eat my snackies. :3

[Guest Sephi]

Little friends have been a great community for me. Also, just accepting solitude as part of your life right now, and focusing on your needs and identity is important. I am less optimistic about everyone always finding someone eventually....Be careful that if you do find someone to connect with that you don't let the headiness of newness and companionship trump your discernment.

[LittleBabygirlQuinn]

Thank you all of the responses!, Sorry I haven't got back sooner. I want little friends but it's hard enough for me to make regular friends. I have really bad social anxiety so it's hard to just put myslef out there and make new friends.

[Guest Waiting4us]

Just try to be you. There is never any hurry in life. But if you know you are not good at making friends, understand why. Let go the fears and talk to a few. Just feel easy with them. Your words say you know yourself so that is best way to introduce self, tell them how you feel and the one who understands will tell you ways to be confident and get going. Never be hard on your self, slowly with time you will feel good and make lots of friends and fear of anxiety will disappear. Wish you a great time here and in real life. Smile the best way to make someone like you and get closer.