how to introduce my partner to ddlg

[littlemoonbug]

​Hello all! This might be a long post but ill try to keep it concise. 

So my fiancé and i have been together a little over a year, but we are two peas in a pod. we complement each other very well. as of the past 6 months since discovering there is such a thing as dd/lg I've really been curious about really making it a part of my life. at first, i tried not to, i was like no maybe its not for me, but i keep coming back to it. and i made the realization when thinking about how to bring it up to my partner, that we are already more or less dd/lg. he takes such good care of me and whenever he makes sure i have food, or calls me baby, or does anything I'm *assuming* a daddy dom/caregiver would do, it makes me feel little. and i love that. I'm not just sure how to bring up dd/lg....i haven't called him daddy yet but i really want to. I've had to bite my tongue a couple of times. i feel like he will be receptive to the idea, especially if i give him examples about how we already have that dynamic. but theres always that thought in the back like "what if he thinks I'm weird and is totally put off by it". honestly i feel like it would make us closer. at some point i would want to incorporate pacifiers and maybe pull ups like goodnights. I'm still unsure about diapers, and i wonder how do i bring THAT up to him. its nice to read on here that some littles/middles aren't into coloring and stuffies or whatnot. (and I'm all for that too but that would be changing myself!) so i don't have to do that. how do i begin the conversation? how do i incorporate it into our sex life as well? i feel like we are both shy people to an extent but i feel he is more dominant because i get all blushy. but really he's so sweet! he makes phone calls for me and whenever I'm sad he lets me cry and lay on him and he tells me everything is okay, he kisses my ouchies, etc, etc. so now i just want to call him daddy and be even more little with him, and him be aware of how it makes me feel and explore this little adventure together. thanks for reading if you did and any advice helps!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I think you've answered your own question in your OP.  Bring it up to him exactly like you've brought it up to us. Show him examples. Show him this post, if it helps! There is always going to be a risk with anything that you share with your partner that they won't understand, or will think you are weird. But being honest, in my opinion, is more important. And you'll never know until you try. Worry about what to do with his reaction after he has a chance /to/ react. Good luck!

[Sparklefrosting]

I would suggest small doses; tell him what ddlg is to you in simple terms and how your relationship compares and if he is receptive ask if you can start by calling him Daddy or some other easy aspect you're interested in. After you both feel comfortable with the first aspect introduce another.