I miss daddy...

[Guest Sexycurvyprincess]

So, my daddy is really busy a lot

And we live in different time zones

So we don't get to talk that much every day

But I'm really clingy

I find myself constantly messaging him

And I get scared that maybe he isn't busy or asleep...

That he got tired of me..

I'm really anxious and I know he doesn't want me to but I can't help it..

My anxiety is through the roof.. I miss him but I'm scared he doesn't miss me...

 

What should I do..?

[Guest Ginger]

Communicate. Tell him what you just said here. Sometimes you have to put aside dynamics and talk to him as an adult, as you would with any relationship.

 

I'm sorry you feel that way and I can sympathize, the feeling sucks... But it's better to tell him now than let this fester until you get depressed or irritable. At that point, he'd probably be confused.

[BabySwe]

Me and my daddy have different timezones as well, so i know it's difficult. My daddy got an evening job so he can spend the day with me, but not everyone can do that but one thing we do when we can is sleep together on Skype. Like, we have it on and headset on, and then we talk til I fall asleep. Then i usually take it off during sleep cause it's not so comfy, but then we wake up the next day and can say good morning (although I wake up before him I usually try to be back when his wakeup time is).

 

That kind of depends on your schedule as well as his though, but I feel it helps me a lot, and he can read me bedtime stories. But my daddy isn't as busy as yours I think.

 

anxiety is hard especially when you just want more and more confirmation, but everytime you want it you worry that you are too much... Or at least I do. So I'm not sure how to help with that one, other than trying to trust that he loves you, but i know its hard sometimes

[BabySwe]

Also you can ask him what he thinks about you messaging him a lot? My daddy loves it, but I've also had exes that have thought that I was way too clingy, so it varies. But if he tells you he loves it you can feel better about it, or if he doesn't at least you will know ^.^

[Whispering-oak]

Talk to Daddy and ask him ... tell him your fears...  suggest he just send you a text with a smile face to let you know he is thinking about you .... I will have full time classes the next eight weeks so i understand that Daddys get busy... but even Daddy's worry about their littles wandering off with someone else when they don't have time to talk... it can go both ways... so  honest communication is a big part of building the trust that binds the relationship....

WO