Baphomet Posted March 17, 2017 Report Posted March 17, 2017 I'm sorry to post this in the general thread.. My last post on this topic was quite a few months ago in the Sex & Health thread but I'm not really sure where this fits.. As I had said in my previous post, I was suspecting that my little was behaving in an abusive manner. Many of you read it and agreed with me that she was indeed being abusive and advised me to break it off as soon as possible. I regret to announce that I had not left the relationship like I had said I would. Instead I tried to make it work... Very recently.. as of like 2hrs ago, she told me that she had lied to me. That she was actually 14 (not 18.. This fucking scares me cause I do not want to get in trouble with any form of law enforcement.) and that she simply wanted someone to coincide in. Before she told me this she was in quite a lot of trouble with her parents (I could hear them yelling in the background of the call). She messaged me several times during the call, while she was quitely being yelled at, saying that she wanted to kill herself... It's been 2 hours and I can't get a hold of her (JUST TO BE SURE SHE'S SAFE. I have no intention of keeping a relationship with her at this point, knowing that she is not of legal age.) and I'm terribly fucking scared.. Now I don't believe she will go through with killing herself. I don't believe she has the means to do it either but.. It still claws at my mind knowing there is a chance I'm completely wrong and she will go through with it.. All I'm looking for with this post is someone to talk to.. I need to get this shit out. I'm already breaking down just typing this..
glgkittykat99 Posted March 17, 2017 Report Posted March 17, 2017 feel free to msg me if u really need to talk ummm i dont know if ill be able to help you feel any better but im here
Princess-P Posted March 17, 2017 Report Posted March 17, 2017 Unfortunately you can't do anything. You have to immediately stop trying to talk to her. Even though you want to know she's OK you can't. You have to protect yourself. And although you don't want to hear it, it may be too late. At 14 years old its very possible her parents have taken her phone/ electronics away, which is why you can't reach her. And very possible they have read your conversations. And possible they now have your information. While I get that suicide is a touchy subject you have to drop this right away. She's admitted to being underage. Block anyway she can communicate with you. And not to be horrible but I can honestly say if I found out a grown ass man was talking to my daughter, even if she lied about her age, I would do anything and everything to go after that man. Because in my mind why wouldn't you ask for proof of age? Catfishing is huge and its easy to lie through the magic of the internet and Photoshop. And not asking for conclusive proof indicates willingness to accept that your talking to someone underage. That's a parents perspective. So I would definitely watch your back because all hell may break loose for you very soon. 1
Guest JoeKarr Posted March 17, 2017 Report Posted March 17, 2017 I hate to say this, but the further away you get from her the better. And also, you have to think about any proof of contact on your phone, computer, or whatever you used to contact her with will be super incriminating. (Pics, convos, vids, etc.) I get that you're hurt and concerned for her, but you need to step back and think rationally at this point. The only person that you can control is you right now. Do what you have to do to cover your butt and to just keep your head down.
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