New to DDLG (sorta) and need advise from people who understand fully.

[PrincessGinger]

I've had a couple of 'daddies' all have ended with them just want picture and not actually caring, calling me clingy etc.

 

Im with a boyfriend who's open for trying stuff and I am happy to finally explore been in my little space. But, we (me and my boyfriend) have no idea where to start.

 

We live 4 hours away from each other and both still live with our parents. So we are restricted on some stuff. I just need help with understanding etc.

 

Please help...

[Princess-P]

Your post doesn't really explain what your confused about. What do you need help with?

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, thanks for asking for our feedback...

I am big fan of one of our amazing members named Spooky.

She has written some fantastic articles that are very clear and cover some of the most basic stuff.

Here is a link to where they are. Both of you should read them and discuss them. Hugs

https://www.ddlgforum.com/forum/16-resources/

[PrincessGinger]

Your post doesn't really explain what your confused about. What do you need help with?

Im sorry if I didn't make it really clear, I need help with everything. Like what sort of rules should be put in and punishments to expects. I know my littles age is 3 but I don't know much else. I've been reading stuff on the internet, but it all seems really uniform. I need real peoples ideas that are all different.

Edited March 14, 2017 by Little Princess Ginger

[Princess-P]

Well to be honest there is no wrong way. You do what works for you.

 

Some people implement rules like bed times or TV time allowed, some have no rules at all. Some do a complete power exchange, some do none at all. Some littles identify with a specific age and age related toys/games and some do not. Some dynamics are 24/7, some are role play, some are just kinks.

 

Its all about what works for you and your partner so don't worry about doing things other couples do. Just try a little of everything and see what sticks.

 

I can tell you about how my dynamic works to give you an idea of the difference in relationships. My Daddy and I are 9 Years in and are 24/7. I don't have little space or a little age. We don't have a power exchange outside of the bedroom. I do however like a wide range if child like things such as Lisa frank colouring books, stuffed giraffes, family/child movies. My Daddy takes great care of me but I also take care of him. I have no rules or punishments and never use "baby talk". We both work full time, make household decisions together and raise our daughter as a equal team.

 

So keep reading and trying thingsbyou may like and talk to your partner about everything. Never feel like you can't decline something they like if you've decided you don't like it as you have just as much say as they do. Communication is the most important thing in it all.

 

Just relax and enjoy exploring.

[Guest Ginger]

Your rules and punishments should be determined by you and your Dom, not us. There's a rules thread here https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2210-what-are-your-rules/?fromsearch= with a lot of people's rules and punishments up though.

 

I'm really not sure what else you mean? "Everything" encompasses a lot of things where CGL is concerned. Clothes? Little space information? Foods? Items for certain age groups? Anything specific?

[PrincessGinger]

Your rules and punishments should be determined by you and your Dom, not us. There's a rules thread here https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2210-what-are-your-rules/?fromsearch= with a lot of people's rules and punishments up though.

 

I'm really not sure what else you mean? "Everything" encompasses a lot of things where CGL is concerned. Clothes? Little space information? Foods? Items for certain age groups? Anything specific?

By everything I guess I mean I just want to hear the way other people do things. If I can hear that then I can add and take away what I like and dislike. That way me and my daddy can mix stuff up and try for our selfs.

[Guest Princessaj]

Back again....I am old and have been reading, reading, reading, commenting, participating, researching, chatting for 8 months and I am still hungry to learn more about DDlg and myself.

 

You are 19 and just joined the forum yesterday.

 

There are thousands of posts here with thousands of comments with everyone that is in DDlg

telling you the way they do things.

 

Read, read, read, read, comment, participate, research...then read some more, chat

 

Make friends, help others and you will help yourself.

 

We have all told you and shared to get you started, so listen and dig in.

 

You have a whole life of DDlg ahead of you.

 

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