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Lately I haven't been feeling very little. This has lead to arguments with my daddy. We keep thinking what I need is a little day. Every time I try to think of what I'd like to do I can't think of anything.


 


Are there any ideas of what we could do that will put me into my space and put us on track? What do you do when you "lose it"?


 


Help is appreciated. 


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For our "little dates", we usually go out for lunch, or I've cream. If there's s movie out i want to see, we go. Sometimes we'll just get ice cream and go shopping for little clothes or accessories or new stuffies.
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Me and daddy are long distance, but when we have full blown little princess day, we draw together (using skype/webcam), watch cartoons, he watches me puzzle or we play a game together ^.^

 

It's hard when you fall out of it though, me and daddy recently had an argument and after that I feel a bit uncomfortable to be in little space (not because he was scary at all, he is very caring, but I get scared to trust that he won't disappear). But with me it's a problem of feeling loved. I feel like I don't deserve to be little in a way, that I don't deserve the love and care and That I have to be grown up/responsible. So we solve it by just working on making me feel treasured and special again. Do you know why you haven't been feeling little lately?

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I love the little crying cow hehe

 

I'm also experiencing the same issue, so hopefully I can get some advice as eell from your post

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Guest Princessaj
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OH My Gosh, what a wonderful question.

 

First and foremost, when you decide what to do, make an invitation for Daddy to your special little day with crayons, markers, stickers, glitter officially in an envelope....make certain you do this enough in advance so that he can plan, be rested and won't be rushed. Make certain you tell him the time your starting, when your ending and anything he has to prepare for like warm clothes and if you need any help, tell him in advance.

 

I have tons of little ideas....

A picnic day at the park, going together to the market and buying yummy little food, making vegetable animals, special shape sandwiches, fizzy lemonade, pink napkins/paper plates, pretty fuzzy blanket to sit on, invite your stuffies, playing on the swings, blowing bubbles, playing hide and seek, fly a kite, go down the slide and have Daddy catch you....if you can't go to the park you can do all of this at home or modify to do it at home. You can also do this at the seaside too.

 

Going for a little spa day with Daddy, book couples massage, mani's/pedi's, facials...do all these things together. This again can be done at home, you can do them for each other or you can book a masseuse to come to your home. Drink cold water with lemon and cucumber. Wear fluffy robes.

 

Arts and Crafts...take 2 of Daddy's old big shirts to make art smocks so you won't get dirty and decorate them for each of you, schedule different kinds of play, finger paint for an hour, play with clay for an hour, make animals out of egg cartons and other paper things for an hour, all things that you would do if you were in Kindergarten, prepare each station with what you will need...when you are done have an art show on a book case out where you can admire your play.

 

I choose, You choose...things that you have never done before. This comes from "Breakfast at Tiffany's." Each of you make a list of little things you have not done and go back and forth with each others list. This can be around the house, in the neighborhood or around town. Even if you are long distance you can take each other on Skype/FaceTime with you.

 

Spend some time volunteering at a pet shelter together. Although its not all petting the cats and dogs, animals make us little. Wear your cat/puppy ears and collar if you want to. Fostering a cat makes me feel little. Look into that too. They need a safe place to stay until they get adopted. My cat's charity pays for all the food, litter, vet everything. I do have to take him to adoption every Sunday morning around the corner, but its so worth having him.

 

Do a photo adventure. Inside or outside. Take photos of your fav little things, dress up and have Daddy take shots of you being little, Daddy being big, write a story and take photos to illustrate telling the story. Each of you pick a thing and then go out to find them. You choose red cars and he chooses people wearing hats. See how many you can capture.

 

I see so many littles on here that love to bake/cook when they are little...set up a cooking school in your place, complete with aprons for both of you, find a recipe that Daddy loves and teach him how to make it all the while being little. You can shop for the ingredients together too while in little space. I just watched "Julie & Julia" movie again last night, so clever and cute.

 

Make a Doll house with Daddy, This last one is actually from being young, my father used to take cardboard boxes and make doll houses out of them. Some had separators and they would form the rooms. We would save little random boxes, juice boxes, and make the furniture out of them, he would cut square holes for windows. We had scraps of fabric to make curtains and bedspreads, pieces of linoleum for the floors and we would get wallpaper sample books to select from use on the walls when the store was going to throw them away.

 

Gosh, use your imagination. Google your little age and the words "play" "date." Googles is so great when you look for kids things to do. There are a gazillion things because moms are always looking for ways to keep their kids busy. I had fun just doing this. Hugs

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I really like the invite thingy! daddy and i just winged it and did some fun things including start on a Rapunzel puzzle buuuuut I'll totally do the invitation thingy next time 

 

^u^

 

OH My Gosh, what a wonderful question.

 

First and foremost, when you decide what to do, make an invitation for Daddy to your special little day with crayons, markers, stickers, glitter officially in an envelope....make certain you do this enough in advance so that he can plan, be rested and won't be rushed. Make certain you tell him the time your starting, when your ending and anything he has to prepare for like warm clothes and if you need any help, tell him in advance.

 

I have tons of little ideas....

A picnic day at the park, going together to the market and buying yummy little food, making vegetable animals, special shape sandwiches, fizzy lemonade, pink napkins/paper plates, pretty fuzzy blanket to sit on, invite your stuffies, playing on the swings, blowing bubbles, playing hide and seek, fly a kite, go down the slide and have Daddy catch you....if you can't go to the park you can do all of this at home or modify to do it at home. You can also do this at the seaside too.

 

Going for a little spa day with Daddy, book couples massage, mani's/pedi's, facials...do all these things together. This again can be done at home, you can do them for each other or you can book a masseuse to come to your home. Drink cold water with lemon and cucumber. Wear fluffy robes.

 

Arts and Crafts...take 2 of Daddy's old big shirts to make art smocks so you won't get dirty and decorate them for each of you, schedule different kinds of play, finger paint for an hour, play with clay for an hour, make animals out of egg cartons and other paper things for an hour, all things that you would do if you were in Kindergarten, prepare each station with what you will need...when you are done have an art show on a book case out where you can admire your play.

 

I choose, You choose...things that you have never done before. This comes from "Breakfast at Tiffany's." Each of you make a list of little things you have not done and go back and forth with each others list. This can be around the house, in the neighborhood or around town. Even if you are long distance you can take each other on Skype/FaceTime with you.

 

Spend some time volunteering at a pet shelter together. Although its not all petting the cats and dogs, animals make us little. Wear your cat/puppy ears and collar if you want to. Fostering a cat makes me feel little. Look into that too. They need a safe place to stay until they get adopted. My cat's charity pays for all the food, litter, vet everything. I do have to take him to adoption every Sunday morning around the corner, but its so worth having him.

 

Do a photo adventure. Inside or outside. Take photos of your fav little things, dress up and have Daddy take shots of you being little, Daddy being big, write a story and take photos to illustrate telling the story. Each of you pick a thing and then go out to find them. You choose red cars and he chooses people wearing hats. See how many you can capture.

 

I see so many littles on here that love to bake/cook when they are little...set up a cooking school in your place, complete with aprons for both of you, find a recipe that Daddy loves and teach him how to make it all the while being little. You can shop for the ingredients together too while in little space. I just watched "Julie & Julia" movie again last night, so clever and cute.

 

Make a Doll house with Daddy, This last one is actually from being young, my father used to take cardboard boxes and make doll houses out of them. Some had separators and they would form the rooms. We would save little random boxes, juice boxes, and make the furniture out of them, he would cut square holes for windows. We had scraps of fabric to make curtains and bedspreads, pieces of linoleum for the floors and we would get wallpaper sample books to select from use on the walls when the store was going to throw them away.

 

Gosh, use your imagination. Google your little age and the words "play" "date." Googles is so great when you look for kids things to do. There are a gazillion things because moms are always looking for ways to keep their kids busy. I had fun just doing this. Hugs

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