working woth an ldr brat

[sayhall]

I have been in a relationship now for a few weeks and started into the daddy little side recently. My little has become more and more bratty and I find it hard to handle and control her. Any advice on how I can and should talk to her to get her to behave after bratty and submit.

[Babygirl4100]

[Himedere-Chan]

Punishments I suppose. I'm not a brat little, more of a middle, but I know when a little in general is acting up you punish them. Since it is long distance you could put her in the corner, no sweets for a time period, maybe no "playtime" if she is active in the bedroom. Or reward her when she is good and listens.
I found a list of punishments and rewards you could read. Hope this helps!
http://cgl-advice.tumblr.com/post/119316064714/a-master-list-of-punishments-rewards-ideas

[Johnny Hammersticks]

You gotta be confident, strong and in control of yourself to break her of her bratty habits. Dont flip flop on things like eating sweets or drinking soda, even if you tell her not to and she does it anyways. Dont even try to punish her, just dont back down from the fact that you tell her not to for her own good, because you care about her well being. Tell her right now shes only allowed to drink water and eat fruits and veggies today. If she dosent listen, or gives you backtalk or whines, dont punish. Reinforce that youre doing it cos you love her.

 

After only a few weeks, if shes being bratty and youre trying to Dom her, you probably arent going to get her submission, it takes months and months and months to establish that kind of dynamic, i dont care what anybody says. You have to build trust, love and understanding before you even attempt to go there.

 

Just be confident and dont back down from the things you KNOW are important. Baby steps, go make her brush her teeth right now, and no sweets or flavored drinks for the rest of the day. Just be nice about it, be cute and caring about it.

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

Use punishments, speak with authority, and most importantly never forget aftercare since you can't be there physically you have to caress her with words as an example whenever I had a little and I punished her after a certain amount of time I used a more comforting voice and I would say something like "Baby girl I know you are feeling grumpy but the rule (at the time) is no cursing at daddy this is why you got punished but most importantly I want you to know I still love you" that's about how mine would go and I didn't do it in text I always called

[LittleGem]

I'm happy for you Sammy! Chu found a little- I told you you would ^.^ hahaha now you have to deal with brattiness

[tayiie]

Find out punishments that she truly hate. I, for example, am very open to my daddies about this. IF they ask about it that is. Otherwise they're on their own because I can be a brat and not everyone knows what to do because different punishments work for different people. I'm also open with this because I know I can be a handful without noticing at that moment and I do want to be my better self so I appreciate if my daddy is helping me with this. (didn't even notice I have severe mood swings now because I stopped smoking, I feel fine but others have told me I'm a bitch xD)

 

Then there is a different aspect to being bratty, the person acts out because its exciting to misbehave. (i myself do this sometimes) it's fun to play with fire

 

So ask your little why she's acting out and what kind of punishment she hates (from a scale 1-10 can be good, the punishment should fit the crime )