Guest aishthetic Posted March 11, 2017 Report Posted March 11, 2017 Hi cuties! I'm a new Little and just recently admitted to myself that I do like this lifestyle.. I still got a couple of questions cause I'm still kinda new (even though I've always liked DD/lg since 2015) and inexperienced.. I've heard a few things of littles who have online daddies, it baffles me like, how do you meet them? How was it, when you first talked to them? You just asked them if they're into DD/lg? And do you guys have met them in real life? What if they catfish you? Or like they're not committed to you just because your relationship is online? Oh and daddies can help answer this as well And any tips for a new little? Like, what I should or shouldn't do, how to act, the rules, etc. And do DD/lg relationship ALWAYS revolve around sexual relationship? Sorry for asking too much, cheers 1
AGentleman Posted March 11, 2017 Report Posted March 11, 2017 the best tip i can give you is not rush into anything.... really get to know people and figure out where to go from there.... this forum is a great place to find new people littles or bigs to answer a few questions you can meet online daddies/cg here on the forum in the personal section you can protect yourself somewhat from catfishing with skype/snapchat but it never is 100% safe in my opinion online/ldr relationships can be just as commited as close distance ones not all DD/lg relation ships are sexual... if you don't want a sexual one there are daddies/cg for that just the same as for a sexual one and there are never too many questions and i think most people here are happy to help you out 1
bbDD Posted March 11, 2017 Report Posted March 11, 2017 Hello Space Kitten... Relax, take your time, enjoy yourself. There are always pitfalls in life and relationships. If it doesn't feel right then it likely isn't. This is your life first. Inviting someone, finding someone to share your time and experiences with should be enjoyable for you and for daddy. It takes time for all the intricacies of your and he to come out and evolve... relax, take your time and enjoy yourself! It's a growing learning process... hopefully with a loving, understanding, compassionate daddy. And like AGentleman said... "there are never too many questions and i think most people here are happy to help you out".
tayiie Posted March 11, 2017 Report Posted March 11, 2017 I can start with this one, ddlg for me is almost 100% non-sexual. This is all different for everyone. But for me I don't find it sexual. I have had a few daddies, two IRL and two online. I feel online is easier for me as I tend not to rush things like I would IRL. Yes it can be tough not having physical contact. But I always Skype with my online daddies and that works for me. We don't even have to talk just knowing the other one is there is all I need. Of course with all my relationships I want us to have had a committed relationship for some time before I start meeting them in person. I feel the need to have a solid ground and know each other well before meeting them. I've met all my daddies on sites similar to this. My online relationships have lasted longer than my IRL. I was with this one guy for almost two years, we never met IRL but we loved each other a lot, but there was something that we both felt was wrong and we both decided to go separate ways. What you should and shouldn't do is up to you. Everything about ddlg is different for everyone because we are all individuals. Therefore there are no rules and there is no right or wrong.
glgkittykat99 Posted March 11, 2017 Report Posted March 11, 2017 i've met daddys before on sites and group chats and it was honeslty, a little awkward lol but after a whle you just open up lil by lil and its ok(nice actually) well for me honestly i ONLY date daddy doms....... (im kind of little ALL teh times even wen im big, and in the end normal guys just can't handle the either crazy hyper ball of clingy affection or awkwardly quiet and distant timid little girl - not bipolar but i get upset very easily and become distant wen i do) so i normally don't have to ask becaus its kind of a given on WHERE i met them personally have not met my current daddy yets but tbh you can't really catfish me because im super cautious and it takes a looonnng time for me to trust them online enough for meeting irl - like so long that if they tried to catfish me theyd probably get annoyed lol it shouldnt be a question of whether or not theyre commited in the relationship even if its ldr, if you want a serious relationship then make that a requirement for who you date in the first place, if you dont you may come to regret it because there are people that ONLY want an ldr - not an irl one ddlg does NOT sexual only - they can be but by no means do they have to be in fact many littles want a non sexual one especially if they have a nonsexual little space as for wat u should/ shouldnt do,rles, how to act etc. there is no guidleinge , no "normal", everyone's unique if ur bratty ur bratty if ur very obedient ur obedient if ur a prince or a tomboy it comes down to u just be urself and it wont go wrong the little bit of advice i do have is: 1. if u dont like punishments at all try to be a bot more obedient ^^ and 2. be wary of fake daddies in this search for one, a big sign is if they're insistent on intantaneously taking such a dominant role in ur life and if they insist on ridiculous rules
Guest aishthetic Posted March 12, 2017 Report Posted March 12, 2017 the best tip i can give you is not rush into anything.... really get to know people and figure out where to go from there.... this forum is a great place to find new people littles or bigs to answer a few questions you can meet online daddies/cg here on the forum in the personal section you can protect yourself somewhat from catfishing with skype/snapchat but it never is 100% safe in my opinion online/ldr relationships can be just as commited as close distance ones not all DD/lg relation ships are sexual... if you don't want a sexual one there are daddies/cg for that just the same as for a sexual one and there are never too many questions and i think most people here are happy to help you out Thank you, AGentleman!! I've tried talking with some people here yesterday and they all seem nice Hello Space Kitten... Relax, take your time, enjoy yourself. There are always pitfalls in life and relationships. If it doesn't feel right then it likely isn't. This is your life first. Inviting someone, finding someone to share your time and experiences with should be enjoyable for you and for daddy. It takes time for all the intricacies of your and he to come out and evolve... relax, take your time and enjoy yourself! It's a growing learning process... hopefully with a loving, understanding, compassionate daddy. And like AGentleman said... "there are never too many questions and i think most people here are happy to help you out". Thank you, bbDD! I'm currently taking my time and trying to enjoy myself even though I still find this weird.. I can start with this one, ddlg for me is almost 100% non-sexual. This is all different for everyone. But for me I don't find it sexual. I have had a few daddies, two IRL and two online. I feel online is easier for me as I tend not to rush things like I would IRL. Yes it can be tough not having physical contact. But I always Skype with my online daddies and that works for me. We don't even have to talk just knowing the other one is there is all I need. Of course with all my relationships I want us to have had a committed relationship for some time before I start meeting them in person. I feel the need to have a solid ground and know each other well before meeting them. I've met all my daddies on sites similar to this. My online relationships have lasted longer than my IRL. I was with this one guy for almost two years, we never met IRL but we loved each other a lot, but there was something that we both felt was wrong and we both decided to go separate ways. What you should and shouldn't do is up to you. Everything about ddlg is different for everyone because we are all individuals. Therefore there are no rules and there is no right or wrong. Hi, babyfoxalex thanks for responding and sharing your experiences! The first time you were in an online DDlg relationship, how was it? I mean, like weren't you afraid of being catfished? And when you trade pictures, were you cautious or something? i've met daddys before on sites and group chats and it was honeslty, a little awkward lol but after a whle you just open up lil by lil and its ok(nice actually) well for me honestly i ONLY date daddy doms....... (im kind of little ALL teh times even wen im big, and in the end normal guys just can't handle the either crazy hyper ball of clingy affection or awkwardly quiet and distant timid little girl - not bipolar but i get upset very easily and become distant wen i do) so i normally don't have to ask becaus its kind of a given on WHERE i met them personally have not met my current daddy yets but tbh you can't really catfish me because im super cautious and it takes a looonnng time for me to trust them online enough for meeting irl - like so long that if they tried to catfish me theyd probably get annoyed lol it shouldnt be a question of whether or not theyre commited in the relationship even if its ldr, if you want a serious relationship then make that a requirement for who you date in the first place, if you dont you may come to regret it because there are people that ONLY want an ldr - not an irl one ddlg does NOT sexual only - they can be but by no means do they have to be in fact many littles want a non sexual one especially if they have a nonsexual little space as for wat u should/ shouldnt do,rles, how to act etc. there is no guidleinge , no "normal", everyone's unique if ur bratty ur bratty if ur very obedient ur obedient if ur a prince or a tomboy it comes down to u just be urself and it wont go wrong the little bit of advice i do have is: 1. if u dont like punishments at all try to be a bot more obedient ^^ and 2. be wary of fake daddies in this search for one, a big sign is if they're insistent on intantaneously taking such a dominant role in ur life and if they insist on ridiculous rules Hi, glgkittykat99! Thanks for responding and sharing your experiences Can I add you? I kind of have something personal to ask regarding my situation right now, if you don't mind? How was it awkward? Like, did you address each other using 'daddy' or 'babygirl' since the first time talking? And how long does it take for you to talk to them before meeting in real life? and before you guys trade pictures? ------------------------------------------------- Thank you all for responding to this, I really appreciate it
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