mommy/daddy/cg space?

[Guest ammy]

sorry if this has been made before, i couldn't find it if it was?

but i see lots of things around like tumblr and here for getting into little space, but i feel like i need to help my da i guess be in "big space"??

does anyone know things that would help? or things that make you feel like in big space ?

thanks everyone ♥!!

[Guest]

Its less of a space and more of a mentality. More often then not, when I talk to other doms, not just in the DD/LG dynamic, but overall. The caregiver/dominant mind frame is on pretty much all the time. I know it is for me, but it varies person to person I suppose. 

[AGentleman]

same here 24/7 in CG space of course there can always be something there that keeps you from it (sadness, sickness......) but for me it's who i am

[Guest]

Couldn't agree more ^

[Princess-P]

Not everyone lives this dynamic 24/7. For many it is a roll play or something people indulge in to destress.

 

I think for many caregivers the main thing that gets them into a "big space" is their little.

 

If your trying to engage with your caregiver just turn up the little charm. Whatever the two of you enjoy as a couple in your dynamic take the initiative and he will fall into his roll.

Edited March 9, 2017 by Princess-P

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

For me it's a mindset I am protective and assertive with a nice touch of kind but it's only to women I don't know why

[Frog]

I'm like Georgia-Daddy. For most of my female friends, I always have some sort of daddy mindset. The type and quality of it depends upon each friend. For some, it's a simple "Hey, how have you been?" up to "That guy you don't like is on the other side of the convention center... What? Yes, you can stick around me."

 

I don't know if it's 24/7 or if I go into bigspace with good friends.

[DaddyInSecret]

For me personally, I'm always in a "daddy mindset"..I can't help it, it's my personality haha.

If ever I've struggled in the past, a few choice words and face pulls from a little is all I need really.

That said just see what reaction you get to certain things and gauge how he act..it's a long journey, the key is figuring out what each other need

[SharkPrince]

My SO and I are both switches, and because I personally lean more towards being little 24/7 and she is more likely big it can be difficult for when I'm sir and she's princess. I do find that my switching into that mindset will hugely rely on her, and how little she is/isn't being.

 

I find that if I'm trying to put myself into that space, I'll do things like take her hand and tell her to stay close and do generally big things to help put her in little space which in turn helps me go more into a sir mindset.