Missing people

[Harley_Quinn]

Hi. I miss a few of my old friends. Like they're exes now but that's not the person I miss. I miss the ones I met and befriended long before we ever dated. And idk why but lately more and more I've been like thinking about them. About the fun we had lol. I know I can't talk to some of them because of issues with how they are towards me and daddy. But two in particular the just stopped answering me one day. Recently I've discovered both have deleted me from Facebook. I miss them quite a bit. Idk what to do tjo. Daddy doesn't want me talking to exes and I don't think they'd even reply to me anymore.

 

Anyone else just miss people?

[Michael]

I miss my ex quite a bit, but sometimes you just have to force yourself to move on; eventually you'll stop thinking about them completely. Sometimes we just get so focused on the nostalgia and good memories that we forget the reason why they're an "ex" in the first place.

 

Even if you start talking again as friends, I think that you'll notice that they've probably changed in ways you didn't expect, or maybe they don't even remember all the good memories anymore, or maybe you've changed so much that you can't talk to them properly. The point is that you're drawn to the idea of "the past" and who this person used to be and what they had with you, but that might not necessarily be how things would go if you reconnect.

[madhattersangel]

Anyone else just miss people?

 

 

My cousin's going through this right now. She was friends with her boyfriend for years before they started dating. And now he's being a jerk to her. But she doesn't want to break up with him because she knows she'll miss who he was as her friend.

[ddlgdude]

Its natural to miss people. I myself miss and ex who I became very good friends after our break up. There was a lot of sketchiness with her but in the end she was a good friend and i miss her dearly. Sadly we had a falling out  and a lot of stuff came out about her that I didnt know. Like how she was in a relationship for some time but didnt bother to tell me...yet would get jealous if i mentioned any girl who was interested in me. Mind you she made it clear we would never end up being together again since LDR never ended up working for her. It hurt that she lied and I never really got a reason why she did so. I sometimes find it hard to say goodbye if things are left unanswered and sadly this is something I have to force myself to let go.

 

Its been years since she and I have talked and while I miss her, I have better people in my life. Learn from the past and move forward. Also sorry for the vent

[Frog]

I miss one great friend who I had to recently stop talking to. She let me act daddy-ish because she didn't trust many to be that close. For various reasons I felt it best to not talk anymore.

 

Another I miss is a woman I was probably in love with. But I couldn't tell her because she might have stayed here. For her career, this would have held her back. I miss her, but that was long ago so it's not painful. I'm sure she's fine.

[Harley_Quinn]

See for me it's not so much missing the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship it's missing the hanging out and going to the mall or smoking a blunt with them relationship.

 

The one person I've contemplated contacting, was one of those exes my dad said I was dating cause I thought I could fix him. And well. I did. He stopped smoking pot, straightened himself out quite a bit. Broke up with me cause he couldn't do distance but we stayed friends for quite sometime. We wrote poetry and stuff we'd share together. And then one day he was really upset. He called me and we talked till he fell asleep. I never heard from him after that. He recently deleted me in Facebook. I dunno why. Just hurts I guess