Pregnant little worries

[Daddys0princess]

I'll be 8 weeks pregnant tomorrow and daddy's knows. Since I've gotten pregnant it's been hard for me to get daddy to act like his normal daddy self... I don't think he really wants to be in a ddlg relationship anymore and he doesn't want to be my daddy, and wants me to stop being little now that there's a baby on the way... He hasn't said this exactly, but he's less daddyish, and hasn't really been putting up with my little side and hasn't been punishing me or rewarding me like he used to... also we got into a fight the night we found out I'm pregnant and he angirly told me I have to grow up to help care for the baby, does that mean no more daddy for me? No more being little? I want both... I miss daddy, but I'm afraid to bring it up... I don't want him to think I don't want to have the baby and be a mommy, because I do.. I just want to be little when it's our time together...

[ddlgdude]

You def need to talk to him and find out whats up. Communication is very much important in this, especially since there is a child on the way. Is it the end of him being your daddy? No but it means that you might have to be grown up a lot more than being a little. Raising a child is a lot of work and means you'll have to plan out your little moments around raising the kid.

 

Its scary but it can be rewarding, so please talk to him!

[SharkPrince]

Reassure him that you wont little around the kids, that little time will be reserved for when they are asleep. It can be exhausting bringing up a child and he's probably freaking out because he'll have to daddy the kids during the day and then you at night.

 

There's obviously going to be a lot of conflict and compromise in a situation like this becaue ultimately, baby 100% comes first. Maybe you are little for less time, or you have a grown up night so you both can relax. I think he just needs to be reassured that he wont be looking after everybody else 24/7 because dom's need looking after too.

[PrincessVanellope]

I'm little, mother to a 7 year old, and 20 weeks pregnant with my second baby. I dont think having children means you have to stop being little at all. You just need to work at it a bit more. My little time is reserved for after my kid is in bed. We go out on "little dates" without our child. Sometimes it can be difficult, and i admit I've never been little and had a tiny baby to care for, but if it's something you both want and enjoy, it can be done!

[Harley_Quinn]

Before I got pregnant, me and daddy discussed changing our relationship style. Rather than being Daddy and little we were going to focus on the sadist and masochist (what we based our sexual side of our relationship on) but now I'm 36 weeks and hes even more of a daddy than before.

 

The point of what I said is talk to him. Despite me not being able to be as little as before I found help from some littles and even daddy's to explain to him just that. Talking helps more than anything in any BDSM relationship whether it be DDLG or it be sadist and masochist or even just bondage. Talking helps all

[EllaDawn]

Daddy and I have been in a DD/lg relationship for over 10 years. We have 3 kids, my stepson (12), our older daughter (8) and our youngest (5). Through all of that, I've stayed myself (middle, not a little, but it still applies) and we've kept our dynamic. It even makes it easier to call Him Daddy, haha. Yes, it's hard to find little time in the beginning when the babies are small and it's going to be a lot of adulting and responsibility that you may not be used to, but you will find that your kids will often adore your little side, because it allows you to get down on their level and just have FUN.

[BabySwe]

Hi

 

Have you gotten to talk to your partner/daddy about it yet? I really hope it works out for you, my heart goes out to you and I haven't been able to get this post out of my head, I really hope everything ends well