Brand new Little....

[Daddys_pixie]

Hi everyone,

 

So I've recently started a ddlg relationship and it is rocking my world in the most amazing way.

 

It's all very new to me.....I'm 36 and in previous relationships something has always been missing, but I've not know what it was. Then in walks this amazing man in my life, who has been a Dom for a long time & had many DDLG relationships, and suddenly everything is making sense. Being a Little is just making so sense to me, its what's been missing. He's amazing and teaching me so well. I'm loving being his good little girl ❤️

 

Any tips, advice would be greatly rec'd.....especially from Littles who were a little older when they had their first taste of a ddlg relationship.

 

Hels xx

[Aqu45]

The main thing is communication, i cant say that enough haha tell each other when something is bothering and youll save yourself so much hassle

and just be you. Dont try to change to what you think he wants you to be and youll be golden!

[BabySwe]

I recognize myself so much in this. It's exactly how I felt! Something was always missing, I never quite felt like I fit in or belonged everywhere, until I discovered this, and it felt AMAZING. I was crying from happiness, and it has improved my life in so many ways.

That said, even though I fulfill the criteria of discovering it when I was older, my daddy is even more new to this than me. But it seems like you've found someone you love who is experienced in the way you want to live, so I am not sure what advice you are looking for? Otherwise, like LittleAqua said, communication is key ^.^

[lilsnoopy]

Some general advice is not to be overly materialistic. Like I do love having lots of plushies but having an entire lolita wardrobe, complete collection of build-a-bears, and every little themed sippy cup imaginable does not make you more 'little' than anyone else. Don't feel the need to compare yourself to tumblr images of impossible standards for littles. Be yourself, being a little is just part of who you are not something that is bought. 

 

Each dd/lg relationship is special and unique. You will have certain needs and so will he just create a dynamic special / super loving / beneficial to both of you! Welcome to the forum!!

[EllaDawn]

Trying to find other middles/littles to connect with was huge for me. I learned so much and got so much more confident. Reading again is huge. I actually found a terrific thing - 30 Days of DD/lg - and I did that challenge and learned a LOT about myself, my middle side, and what I need.

[Daddys_pixie]

EllaDawn....where did you find 30 Days of DdLG? Xx

[Daddys_pixie]

And thank you all for your replies ❤️❤️❤️

 

This forum is just amazing! Having all these Littles to talk to is just great xx