Aqu45 Posted March 5, 2017 Report Posted March 5, 2017 I've been wondering about this, is it ok to be little around someone who isn't your daddy? Obviously you never want to just jump in with someone you just met and start a relationship but just talking to a guy and getting to know them I have a tendency to slip into little space even when I try to stay big. I don't call them daddy or get really cuddle/physical but just act silly and playful like. Is this bad or is it ok?
DutchLittleRose Posted March 5, 2017 Report Posted March 5, 2017 (edited) I see no problem i think there can be many forms. Just keep an open communication Edited March 5, 2017 by DutchLittleRose 2
BabySwe Posted March 5, 2017 Report Posted March 5, 2017 I think that depends on you and your daddies preferences I personally like to talk to other daddies, as long as they are friendly. Even though it might be easy to slip into little space if they are very daddylike, there's nothing wrong with that per say, as long as you and your daddy are okay with it ^.^ 1
Aqu45 Posted March 5, 2017 Author Report Posted March 5, 2017 I don't have a Daddy right now, haven't found the right match, I think that might be why I slip into little space so easily when I do talk to one...
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted March 5, 2017 Report Posted March 5, 2017 If you're non-sexual with them... then it seems really the question is... is it okay to be yourself? Being little is part of who you are. You have no Daddy and you're being little in a no sexual way... this seems very normal to me. 5
babybunny-xx Posted March 5, 2017 Report Posted March 5, 2017 I think it's totally okay. It's part of who you are. I dated a few people for a year before I was with Daddy and even before I knew what being little was I knew that when I feel comfortable, my "little" side comes out and I act really young sweet and playful. I have an "uncle" also who I met through the local kink scene and have had little days out with him - myself and Daddy have an open relationship. 1
Aqu45 Posted March 5, 2017 Author Report Posted March 5, 2017 (edited) If you're non-sexual with them... then it seems really the question is... is it okay to be yourself? Being little is part of who you are. You have no Daddy and you're being little in a no sexual way... this seems very normal to me. I didn't think it was a bad thing but I also wasn't very sure. Just kinda wanted to make sure I wasn't accidentally acting like one of those fake littles that are here for the wrong reasons...Thank you guys so much for replying to me!! Edited March 5, 2017 by Guest 1
Guest Isabelle Posted March 6, 2017 Report Posted March 6, 2017 Of course! I'm little with lots of friends, other littles, daddys, and people who know I'm little but are just plain friends. Your daddy is a special relationship, but no reason you can't act silly or hold a stuffie or color with someone who isn't your daddy. 2
Himedere-Chan Posted March 6, 2017 Report Posted March 6, 2017 (edited) It fine to me personally, I act silly around people and the silly me is my middle me. However it's up to you and your daddy if it is okay, does he know you do this and is okay with it? Hope you figure out what is best for you and your relationship. ^w^P.S. SORRY! I didn't read carefully enough. >.< Since you don't have one yet it is tots okay to as long as he has no little of his own OR his little is okay with you two acting CG/L. So sorry, I feel bad. xc Edited March 6, 2017 by Himedere-Chan
TheRatQueen Posted March 6, 2017 Report Posted March 6, 2017 I think it's fine! I have a Daddy and we also have a friend who is one. The difference is in action, just like with vanilla friendships. It's up to you to decide when something isn't platonic. For example, I've colored my friend pictures, we play games together, and I use my "little girl voice" to talk to him when I'm in that headspace. I save the kisses, cuddles, and sexual bits for my partner. 3
Aqu45 Posted March 6, 2017 Author Report Posted March 6, 2017 It fine to me personally, I act silly around people and the silly me is my middle me. However it's up to you and your daddy if it is okay, does he know you do this and is okay with it? Hope you figure out what is best for you and your relationship. ^w^ P.S. SORRY! I didn't read carefully enough. >.< Since you don't have one yet it is tots okay to as long as he has no little of his own OR his little is okay with you two acting CG/L. So sorry, I feel bad. xc youre alright haha i honestly didnt think about if they have a little or not cus i NEVER am sexual with someone unless theyre my daddy, ill definetely have to start remembering that in the future, the last thing I want is someone messaging me thinking that im trying to steal their daddy -shudders- we littles can get very possessive haha
EllaDawn Posted March 7, 2017 Report Posted March 7, 2017 I'm little with lots of people. It has nothing to do with them being Daddy or not; I'm a middle. Period. It's my identity. I know when I have to adult, but if you are a friend, expect to see my little/middle side. If you are someone I am interested in, expect to see my little/middle self (Daddy and I are poly). I'm not ever anyone's little but Daddy's, but I am definitely ME.
Dumbledork'sPrincess Posted March 10, 2017 Report Posted March 10, 2017 I'm am little sometimes without meaning to be. Little space just happens. I've been little with other Littles and other guys but only sexual/relationship-like with my Daddy
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