complicated thing with Daddy :"3

[Ruetta]

[Guest bbylovecx]

Something similar is happening to me right now actually! My Daddy and I haven't known each other for very long (we only met a few months ago) but he hasn't been responding to any of my messages and he deleted/took me off all his social medias and I'm wondering if this is his way of breaking it off? I'm not sure, I don't want to jump to conclusions or anything but most of my friends are saying that I need to move on. I'd say the same for you, too. If he's not fighting to talk to you when you're together, but is after you break it off, then he may not be worth it, you know? It's seems like he only gives you attention when he knows he's about to lose you, and that's not how it should be. He should give you attention all the time (though it's understandable everyone has lives and things to do, but effort needs to at least be made). This is just all my opinion, and ultimately it's up to you. Hope everything works out for you, love! <3

[cuppycakes]

Something similar is happening to me right now actually! My Daddy and I haven't known each other for very long (we only met a few months ago) but he hasn't been responding to any of my messages and he deleted/took me off all his social medias and I'm wondering if this is his way of breaking it off? I'm not sure, I don't want to jump to conclusions or anything but most of my friends are saying that I need to move on.

 

At least to me, a complete outsider, these two situations seem completely different. @bbylovecx your situation sounds like he's trying to ghost you, which I recommend you read this:

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11758-ghosting-or-slow-fade/?hl=ghosting

Ghosting is a terrible thing to have happen, and I'm sorry for that.

 

@Tcha if YOU want to break up with him, then it shouldn't matter how he feels about it; however, if you don't want to break up with him, either, then you two can probably work something out instead. Relationships are about compromise, commitment, and communication.

It seems like you are telling him how you feel, which is great, but he needs to know that he will lose you if something doesn't change. Maybe you two can set aside time every day to call each other, or do something together. Maybe you can set aside a day or two during the week that's devoted to each other. If you're not willing to compromise, then I suggest you take a break from relationships and work on yourself for a while.

 

As far as doing things while daddy's away, usually I'm the one who's away for a while and my daddy has to fend for himself. If you're in school right now, maybe you could take some more credits to keep yourself busier. Read some books, do adult things, do little things, start a new hobby, anything! There's loads of things to do when a daddy isn't around. (Look around the forum as well, I know I've seen quite a few ideas floating around for single littles, but they would work well for anybody with free time)