Guest BabyG Posted March 1, 2017 Report Posted March 1, 2017 (edited) . Edited July 23, 2017 by BabyG
Guest Posted March 1, 2017 Report Posted March 1, 2017 It's not wrong to feel betrayed. He told you it was only dates yet he sletp with people and told you after. That's lying in my book. Like it would have been one thing to tell you a day or two after it happened but to wait and be like oh it's been a few people I can totally feel you being upset. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and why. You need to maybe set up some guild lines like hey if your gonna move to the next level like that please be upfront and honest and not wait till I am the last to know. I myself am poly and have two daddies. Each may seek out other relationships if they want to but just let me know what's going on as far as hey I am seeing this person, hey this person is now my little / girlfriend (what have you ) and then if they are to the point of getting comfortable to have sex or something. Both my daddies are LDRs so trust and commitmenting is a huge part of things. I hope things work out for you dear stay strong 1
Guest BabyG Posted March 1, 2017 Report Posted March 1, 2017 (edited) . Edited July 23, 2017 by BabyG
Guest BabyG Posted March 1, 2017 Report Posted March 1, 2017 I have major respect for people who can make poly work! I like to think I could be open minded with it but I'm very scared I'll get jealous and feel left out?
Guest Posted March 2, 2017 Report Posted March 2, 2017 Jealousy happens sometimes. It's just human nature but you just have to make sure everyone is open and commitmenting. There are all kinds of ways to make a relationship work but everyone needs to be honest about it. There is a poly topic in the resource area that you should probably take a look. I know you're in an open relationship but poly kind of Falls in to that as well maybe. If you truly don't think you can trust him again I am not staying to stay but be honest with yourself and him.
Hurndauke Posted March 2, 2017 Report Posted March 2, 2017 I personally only agree with monogamous relationships, as I believe it is the only thing right in my book, and more importantly I believe in devoting yourself to one person, not multiple. I can definitely see how you'd feel betrayed, the best thing to do is talk to him about it. 2
BigCityLittleGirl Posted March 2, 2017 Report Posted March 2, 2017 Well I suppose an open relationship should mean you are totally OPEN with each other. Have a chat let him know you are OK with these things but you should be the first to know. I am in an open relationship with my daddy but only with girls. I am allowed to see girls however he can not. We are perfectly fine with this. Communication is key
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