Heartbroken after breaking things off with Daddy

[Guest sensitivekitten]

My Daddy and I had to break things off for a number of reasons. It was the right thing to do for the time but I'm heartbroken and scared for the future. We were so bonded. I don't want to look for another Daddy. Just need some hope that things will get better. 

 

Thanks in advance  

[Guest xLittlebugx]

Aww, I'm so sorry!!! I've never had a daddy, but I'm sure that you are feeling pretty sad right now. I couldn't imagine. Things will get better for you though, and I'm sure you'll find a new daddy eventually, but no rush. Take time to just relax, and go from there. If you ever want to chat, let me know  

[Guest Loki]

everything will work out, Pinkie Pie promise!

 

Some things that may help:

 

Drink and eat healthy warm stuff. The warmth will help emotionally and the healthy stuff will help the body.

 

Find a new hobby. It will stimulate the mind and keep the body and soul busy.

 

Be gentle with yourself. Emotional wounds need love and attention like every other wound.

 

Remember you will find love again. It will take time but eventually you'll be able to look for it.

[Magi]

It takes time, but you may find another. However, I agree with Pinkyellowblue. Find something to occupy your mind, get into a new hobby or learn something new about an old one. Find a good book, or increase your movie collection. Enjoy your life, for each moment, can be wonderful. Things will heal and you will be ready to move forward.

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

It's horrible and I'm sorry. I know this feeling won't last though. Let yourself grieve the relationship and then get in as much fun and things you enjoy as you can. Sending love ❤️

[Guest Waiting4us]

I am so sorry for that which took place. It is hard time to be honest but we need to let go and move. Accept that which has happened, take your own time and slowly get over. Sending you hugs and lot of positive energy. Time doesn't heal so all we need is to be easy and calm. Healing is only way, so try and do things which make you feel happy and for time forget what has happened.

[BabySwe]

I am so sorry. I remember when my daddy left me. Before I found him my life felt chaotic, and he helped me with school work so I could be good, and when he left me things fell apart. It is hard when you get dependent on someone, and daddys and littles should be together forever in my world. I remember thinking that there was nothing as sad as a little/sub without a daddy/master. I felt so lost and confused, sad and abandoned. That said, eventually it passed. I thought about him less and less and managed to get on top of my school work again, even though it took a long time. I understand your pain, but eventually it gets better. He even contacted me recently, after almost 2 years, and apologized for the way he left me. Things will work out, you can relax and everything will be fine, eventually ^.^ Besides, you have people here that are like-minded and care, and maybe you have family and friends as well to help you. We're here for you <3

[Guest Ultra-Kitten]

I'm so sorry to hear about you& your Daddy. 

Be strong though, everything will be okay. 

I definitely agree with some of the replies you got, find something positive to occupy your time.. something that you're interested in or something new, just something to kind of keep you distracted & whatnot. 

Definitely surround yourself with positive things. 

You'll get through it, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to or just want another friend.. & I'm 100% sure you could find other lovely people who will listen to you & just be a friend. 

[babytaloay]

This exact same thing happened with me and my daddy. It's fairly recent, so I'm still heartbroken and feel no desire to find anyone else. I've tried talking to a few other people but it's been so hard to try and move on. The best advice I've been given is to let yourself feel how you're feeling, let yourself grieve, and remember that you were your own person before you met him. It hurts, especially if you both still love each other, but you will find that love again. Try to look at the relationship as a lesson, rather than a negative experience. I don't regret my relationship with my daddy for a second. I wish it could have worked out, but that's not the reality. Take everything as it comes, let yourself feel, and do little things that make you happy. Listen to happy music, let yourself cry in the shower, and slowly, you will be okay. Hopefully, you will just be able to look back fondly on the time you had with him.