Little is ignoring me

[Dahturtle]

For the past few days my little has been barely talking to me usually whenever i say something she says ok or no and im starting to get a little bit scared here i dont know if she's found another daddy or she's just starting to hate me i dont know what to do please help.

[Daddy's Meg]

There isn't much anyone can say that's going to really solve this except her. You need to just ask her what's going on, express your concern. There are a million reasons she could be distant, until you two communicate, you'll never know if it's something fixable.

[Dahturtle]

Im going to try and talk to her after i get off of work but i dont know if she'll respond though im just really hoping she hasnt found another daddy  :/

[Guest Isabelle]

Littles can be very sensitive, it's possible you did or said something that caused her hurt or sadness that you don't realize or didn't intend. Or it's possible something in her own life has caused her pain and she's too scared or doesn't want to share. Try and be open to let her know she can talk to you about anything, don't assume anything.

[BabyKittenPaws]

Ask her if you did something that upset her, maybe expressing your concern for her will make her feel somewhat better and she may open up and talk or maybe it's something personal for her

[Guest Princessaj]

Thanks for asking us for our feedback.

 

I know you might not want to hear this, but if she found another Daddy behind your back as you fear, then it is best she moves on.

 

There is a saying "If you set a butterfly free and they come back to you, it was meant to be. If they don't return then you are free to meet the one that was meant for you."

 

Holding on to what you fear will keep you a slave to pain. If you like pain, that is your choice. I personally prefer joy. Hugs

[Dahturtle]

Thank you allfor the support and answering tbh i thought iwas going to be ignored on here and i tried talking to her last night she didnt asnwer me at all i  wished her a good morning earlier this morning and she said thanks cutie 

[Dahturtle]

Turns out I was just a side daddy she had in total 5 daddies :/ really hurts rn I was her daddy for a little over a year and then I find this out and it just really hurts...idk what to do

[kissingkitten]

I don know wat to say. I am sowwy dis happened to chu. That was very dishonest of her. Ifs chu were a lil i would say to give chur stuffie extra hugs but i don know what to say to a daddy.

 

Like you mentioned, people on here did respond to you. Keep reaching out to da community n dont spend too much time alone.

 

Sending you heart hugs and hopes chu feels better soon. Dere is a lil out dere for chu. You jus got to be patient.

[Dahturtle]

I really hope so :/ and thanks

[Daddy's Meg]

Turns out I was just a side daddy she had in total 5 daddies :/ really hurts rn I was her daddy for a little over a year and then I find this out and it just really hurts...idk what to do

Wow, I'm really sorry this is how things turned out. Some people are just so heartless. The person above me is right though, there's someone out there that'll take pride in being yours and treat your relationship as something special.

 

Take your time and let your heart heal up. Things will get better.