Age difference between Daddy and Little

[Sophii]

Hello, there!

I never thought much about it, or cared much about it. But the two guys I dated before I started my actual relationship were close from my age.

P.S.:Both were vanilla relationships.

My actual boyfriend (we also started as Vanilla), daddy, is a lot older than me. I'm almost 22 and He is a bit more than 40.

He is very mature, but sometimes He is just a cuddly teddy bear. And He also says that I'm very wise. *Giggles*

I think that these things (age, color, appearance) don't really matter when you love someone. A person can be mature no matter how old the person is, and also the opposite.

So if you love each other, you will find out that it dodoesn't really matter.

Hope I helped you

Edited March 6, 2017 by Sophii

[Todtuga38]

My daddy is 14 years older than me but i cant identify with not recognizing things he did and had when he was a child. im not sure if its because i got all of sisters handmedowns (they are 10+ yrs older) or what but i get 97% of the refrences and recgonize most of the toys he talks about when he refers to his childhood I can understand how that could be bothersome for both the daddy and little tho.

Honey_bear, if you don't mind me asking, how do you deal with this age gap when introducing Him to your family/friends? I'm from a small town so I'm very scared of being judged and all that, but I also like spending time with my family and such so I don't want to cut ties completely. I'm just not sure how to do this!

[Todtuga38]

Hello, there!

I never thought much about it, or cared much about it. But the two guys I dated before I started my actual relationship were close from my age.

P.S.:Both were vanilla relationships.

My actual boyfriend (we also started as Vanilla), daddy, is a lot older than me. I'm almost 22 and He is a bit more than 40.

He is very mature, but sometimes He is just a cuddly teddy bear. And He also says that I'm very wise. *Giggles*

I think that these things (age, color, appearance) don't really matter when you love someone. A person can be mature no matter how old the person is, and also the opposite.

So if you love each other, you will find out that it dodoesn't really matter.

Hope I helped you

Hi Sophii, same question as for Honey_Bear, if you don't mind me asking, how do you deal with this age gap when introducing Him to your family/friends? I'm from a small town so I'm very scared of being judged and all that, but I also like spending time with my family and such so I don't want to cut ties completely. I'm just not sure how to do this! I'm 29 and Daddy is 48.

[Kitty.kitty.xoxo]

My Daddy is 10 years older than I am. But then again... I have always been into older men.

[Guest MisterE]

Eight years difference in age. I'm 44, and she's 36. Though at this point, I don't see it as any sort of gap.

[tayiie]

I don't mind if someone else is in a relationship with large age difference. But I personally could never go beyond 6-7 years age difference above my own age. Neither do I want the guy to be too young. I would prefer him to be as close to my age as possible, preferably 1-3 years difference.

[PrincessLiv]

I don't mind a big age difference at all. If anything it makes me feel naturally more little  ever since I realised I liked guys I liked them older. 

Edited March 31, 2017 by PrincessLiv

[SweetDdy]

I believe that age is just a number in the beginning of the relationship. Everything is new and exciting. As the years go on it takes alot of effort for the older person to try and adapt to the younger person's changes. If the age gap is 10 years or more the younger person may still be trying to figure who they are.

 

But that's from my own experiences. I still say go for it. Don't worry about age if there's an attraction and enjoy the time together. Every experience can help for future ones.

Edited March 31, 2017 by SweetDdy

[Guest Wolfsbabylove]

Daddy is 4 years older than me but I have had Vanilla boyfriends that were 11 years and 17 years older than me. I think age doesnt matter between consenting adults. Personality is what matters. Although I will admit if they had "looked old" I wouldnt have dated them. They each looked much younger and my Daddy looks like an older teen without facial hair (Hes 28 btw). lol I am no help to your second question, Im not attracted to younger men.

[Daddy's Lil]

My Daddy is 55 I'm 44. We don't see an age gap.

[Little G]

My Daddy and I are 5 years apart, but I've never felt the age gap because we have so much in common and I've always been mentally mature for my age. I guess age gaps depend on each persons preferences. Edited April 26, 2017 by Little G

[Guest thethreethatwereone]

I am 21 and my daddy is 40  

 

To me age doesn't matter, it's love, kindness, and everything else that counts 

[jaredstone363]

I've been in several ddlg relationships, the biggest gap being a 23yr age difference and the smallest being a 11yr age gap. In regards to family, it's only my mother and brother and they don't know about my lifestyle preferences. I have a very close knit group of friends and they have always accepted and welcomed any little that I introduced to them.

[ThePrincessMinMin]

Personally I'm quite neutral (if you could call it that). Preferrably I'd like someone whom is a little older than I am, but no more above 15 years age difference. I couldn't go beyond that personally. I'm not personally attracted to younger guys. Edited April 30, 2017 by ThePrincessMinMin

[Little Illy]

Daddy and I are 7 years apart, he is older. I've always had a thing for older men. As stated, they tend to be more mature in many aspects and are able to hold a decent covno without telling me how lit their mix tape is.

 

The only (few) times I see an issue with a drastic age gap is when the one is freshly 18. That tends to lead to a one-sided relationship in which the 18yo is taken advantage of. Of course this is not the case 100% of the time, but it does happen quite frequently. The only other time is at the other end of the spectrum. If there is an elderly participant and a much, much younger partner. Same thing can easily happen, only this time it tends to be the older partner who is taken advantage of.

 

Basically, as long as both parties are happy, safe and honest then I literally just consider age a number. 

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Dominus was 7 years older than me. My bf before that was 9 months older than me. Both has their pros and cons. I could/would never ever ever date someone younger than me. It weirds me out. I tend to gravitate towards older men in regards to looks - But physical age is essentially meaningless (unless its a felony) and I use mental/emotional age as a much better gauge. 

[Guest JADHBD17]

I'm 34 and my Daddy is 45. I don't think about our age gap as much as my Daddy does, or I should say he used to. Once we learned about DDlg, we realized that we were basically a member of the lifestyle before we knew DDlg existed. I think our age gap used to bother him, but after embracing DDlg, he is so relaxed and feels at peace. We both feel so glad that we "found" our real selves.

[DaddysLittleOne32]

My last daddy was 3 and a half years older than me, and I didn't mind at all!! ^.^ (He's still my best friend) my daddy now is 2 weeks older than me. I'm not sure how I'd do with a younger daddy, tho.

Edited May 2, 2017 by DaddysLittleOne32

[HisuianLilligant]

Me and my Daddy are both 21, he's older by 2 months exactly- his bday is 10/14 mine is 12/14

[Daddy's Lil]

My Daddy is 10 years older thsn me