Are you good enough to be a Caregiver or a little?

[sthvxo]

She was laying in bed, surrounded by her best stuffies, and already tucked in. In her arms was her favorite stuffie; a cream colored bunny with a pink bow, that matched perfectly to her pink nightgown. A man walked into the room, with a book in his hand. The man who stole her heart, the man she married, the man she called Daddy. As she watched Daddy, a rush of safety and warmth flooded her heart; an intense mixture of feeling vulnerable yet protected that was unique to his presence alone.

 

 He approached her and gently ran his fingers through her hair, placing his hand softly on her cheek. "Ready for storytime, my little angel?" He asked. His voice was soothing to her. She smiled and nodded, "Can it be Green Eggs and Ham? Pleaseee Daddy?"

 

 He sat on the bed next to her while she wrapped her arms around his arm, as if it was a single fluid motion. She bounced with excitement when he revealed he had already picked out Green Eggs and Ham. He knew his little girl well, something he took pride in. He kissed her softly on the forehead and opened the book.

 

 

Okay, so my writing skills aren't that great. I'm not really a writer LOL. I tried, that's what counts.

 

Anyways, what's obvious in this? She is a little. He is a Daddy. So what I want to point out is that I did not describe their age, their race, or their physical appearance. Maybe she is 22 and he is 36. Maybe they are both 48. Who knows, could be any age. She could be curvy or flat, skinny or overweight. He could be tall, short, muscular or chunky. Is she Latino or White? Is he African American or Chinese? 

 

You didn't need that information to determine that she is a little and he is a Daddy.

 

I've seen several posts with people asking if they are "too" this or that to fit their desired role? Stooop.

 

It's not a beauty contest. There are no physical standards you need to adhere to,

and there are no requirements for your age either (except 18+ for sexuality if your DD/lg dynamic is not platonic).

It's about your mentality and how you feel. 

 

You're not too fat to be a little. You're not too short to be a Daddy. That stuff doesn't matter.

Your appearance, age, race, language, location, job title, family tree, car color, or washing machine model doesn't matter!

Being a Caregiver or a little is something that comes from within. It's in your heart.

 

Yet that question is still nagging you, isn't it? "Will anyone want me?"

Whether or not you fit someone's preferences is no different than a typical vanilla relationship.

Everyone has preferences and it's impossible for you to be everyone's type.

 

Will someone reject you because you are too overweight? Yes.

But you know what? I promise you that there is

also someone that only wants someone who is overweight.

I also promise that there are plenty of people who simply don't care.

 

Don't let rejection or insecurity stop you from being who you are and embracing yourself to the fullest.

Just because you haven't found the right Caregiver or little for you doesn't mean they are not out there.

You are exactly what someone is looking for.

There is someone for you.

Don't discourage yourself. Focus on learning and growing as a person

so you can be your best self when you meet them.

 

[Guest Loki]

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[Goth_in_Kigurumis]

This is such a sweet post and it really made my day!

 

I'm half black and I had to live with steriotypes and racism all my life and I'm goth too and sometimes I felt left out because I really only saw these cute white girls and guys only wanting white girls... and when I was out with my female friends I would be the only one who didn't get hit on so I really started to hate my skin color. I've been fighting depression and self harm for years and just recently I started accepting myself and things like this post just encourage me to stick to the road I've been going in the past year to finally be in peace with myself...

 

Thanks a lot and lots of love to you!

XOXO ♡

[kissingkitten]

<3

[HeCallsMePrincess]

what a wonderful reminder

[SweetVenom]

This post is everything!

Thank you for posting this. I think everyone should see this as sometimes these things worry us and we forget what is truly important.

[Guest Luna Moonbeams]

This. Is. Amazing <3