Writing rules for my long distance partner.

[daddy/babygirl]

We are switch couple and lately i've taken on more of the caregiver role and my baby boy asked me to write rules for him and punishments. Are these too harsh?

 

Daddy’s rules

Punishments are bold.

 

Bedtimes

11pm school nights (without work)

12pm school nights (with work if homework needs to be completed)

1am weekends (unless daddy has other plans)

You have 2 chances to be late a maximum of 30 mins for bedtime a week.

Anything over those two times or past 30 mins will result in not being allowed to cum.

 

Shower nightly.

Especially after work.

Daddy will not stay on the phone while you sleep.

 

Lay clothes out the night before for school and or work.

Daddy will help if you’d like.

5 spankings on FaceTime with daddy.

 

Always compete all homework, and study for upcoming tests.

Show daddy if asked.

Early bedtime, no cumming.

 

Do your chores around the house to ensure to your greatest possibility that you will not be grounded.

 

Never talk back to daddy.

This includes no, and refusing to answer daddy’s questions. If you’re too embarrassed to say it      aloud you may text it.

10 spankings on FaceTime with daddy.

 

No playing with yourself unless you have asked permission.

If daddy is not available you may edge, but do not cum.

Early bedtime,10 spankings on FaceTime with daddy, with 5 edges and no cumming.

 

Always take your medications at their correct times.

Provide daddy with a list of these, and the times they are to be taken.

Early bedtime.

 

Always talk to daddy if you’re feeling down and want to hurt yourself.

Daddy is always here to help.

 

Eat at least two meals a day, always have dinner.

Three with two snacks is favored.

A serious talk with daddy.

 

Stay hydrated, equivalent  of 3 bottles of water a day.

After you’ve drank this amount you may have juice, and or one soda a day.

A serious talk with daddy.

 

Always say good morning and good night to daddy.

Always, if not daddy will worry, a lot.

 

Talk to daddy on the phone at least once a day.

Unless with friends, in which case daddy should be warned, so I don’t worry.

15 spankings on FaceTime with daddy.

 

Brush your teeth before bed, and in the morning.

5 spankings on FaceTime with daddy.

 

Always tell daddy when you are going to smoke both tobacco or pot

Do not do these things in excess.

5 spankings per offense on FaceTime with daddy.

 

Do not drink without daddy knowing and approving it.

A serious talk with daddy, 10 spankings on FaceTime with daddy, no cumming, early bedtime.

 

Do not take any pills you do not need, and that aren’t on the list that is provided at the times.

A serious talk with daddy.

 

Do not deliberately push daddy to high levels of jealousy.

A number of spankings daddy determines on FaceTime.

 

Do not worry about bothering daddy.

It is daddy’s favorite part of the day to care for my baby boy.

 

Do not allow anyone to call you by baby boy or sugar

These are daddy’s terms of endearment and should not be used by anyone else.

 

Always tell daddy when you are uncomfortable.

 

 

You are to make a list of things you wish to be called and things you are comfortable with me saying.

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

I think as long as your Daddy doesn't think they're unfair or harsh then it shouldn't be a problem. It's all about what the both of you are comfortable with. Just have him review the rules and punishments and if he has any questions/concerns you can talk it out and make the proper adjustments.

 

But also make sure that these rules and punishments are something you can enforce and keep on top of.

[Antoinette]

Rules are supposed to be given and talked to by each other, as should punishments. Nobody will tell you if these are too soft or harsh because we're not in your relationship - we don't know either person's limits. The only way you'll know is talking about it with one and other. This is somewhat of a private thing between you two and if you guys agree on everything there then that's fine, regardless of whether or not someone else thinks it's too 'harsh' or 'soft'