Little are rare here

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

Hello, so I've noticed that littles are pretty rare in my local area, or just in the state of Georgia. I have only had one dd/lg relationship that was in my state, but that didn't work out for me. Just a thought in my head but I just wonder if anyone seems to notice the same thing as me. Would be interested to hear from others in the same state.

Edited February 17, 2017 by DaddyNamedMike

[meegiewoo]

it was rare to find a daddy in texas but I found one online c:

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

I look for them online, but seems that dd/lg website are pretty scarce. I know of this one and maybe 2 or 3 others, but just not a lot of littles in my area unfortunately. So hard to find them online and offline.

[Guest Loki]

I think it's rare to find anyone interested in this local. It's why I think people have no choice but to start in LDR. Couple that with how widely littles and daddies are, and I think it's a small miracle anyone finds their counterpart(s).

 

But maybe I'm pessimistic.

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

Same I have found a few Georgia littles but not many I mostly see New York, California, Texas, and Pennsylvania

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

I think it's rare to find anyone interested in this local. It's why I think people have no choice but to start in LDR. Couple that with how widely littles and daddies are, and I think it's a small miracle anyone finds their counterpart(s).

 

But maybe I'm pessimistic.

 

I don't think that is pessimistic, more realistic. I just have had numerous LDR with subs and littles for a while, but because of the distance it just doesn't work out. Like for instance one little I had said it was harder to respect me and my rules because I couldn't punish her as severely. Plus I have been in enough online relationships that I just want a more local relationship so I can really have the best experience for both of us. 

Edited February 17, 2017 by DaddyNamedMike

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

Same I have found a few Georgia littles but not many I mostly see New York, California, Texas, and Pennsylvania

I have definitely seen lots of Cali and New York littles on numerous sites and here, unfortunately I left New Jersey so a train ride to see them is just not an option. I do visit often but not enough that I feel would suffice both of our needs 

[lilsnoopy]

So people don't know what they are until they're in a relationship. For example I found my partner and he origonally just caught on to my bdsm jokes (we hung out with a dark humored group so no one really cared) and from there he started to show his more caring, patient personality. eventually I explained dd/lg and he took to it very well and I was lucky to find him. I've also made friends with a little who likes literally a few houses away. We go to the park and color with chalk and stuff together. Online is great too but there is potential to find someone in person it just might have to be someone with that personality already you can just introduce this too

[Guest Ginger]

I actually have a friend in Georgia who's a Little, but I think she's taken. She hasn't made it obvious but her interaction with a friend seems like it... Hopefully you find someone

[Guest littlekat93]

I'm from Florida and the lifestyle isn't too common here either. I wish you luck. 

 

 

 

Btw, Georgia is gorgeous! 

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

I actually have a friend in Georgia who's a Little, but I think she's taken. She hasn't made it obvious but her interaction with a friend seems like it... Hopefully you find someone

Fingers crossed there

 

I'm from Florida and the lifestyle isn't too common here either. I wish you luck. 

 

 

 

Btw, Georgia is gorgeous! 

Yeah Georgia is beautiful, used to live in Florida and besides the heat and the storms, it was nice living there. Honestly though when it gets clouds and rains, I enjoy it because I can go outside without dying.

[fluffiepinkiecutie]

Every component of the ddlg community is rare everywhere, imho. I'm Italian and as long as I've been here (6 months) I've seen only two littles and one new daddy. I don't like LDRs at all, so I think that I'm going to wait my next relationship.

[Guest]

I know a lot of daddies in Texas. But on this time daddies far out number how many littles are on here it seems.

 

I have my daddy Kerry who only lives like four and a half hours from me and then my daddy Steve lives in Long Island . (I am poly) it just takes time and patiences to find the right person

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

Every component of the ddlg community is rare everywhere, imho. I'm Italian and as long as I've been here (6 months) I've seen only two littles and one new daddy. I don't like LDRs at all, so I think that I'm going to wait my next relationship.

I know what you mean, LDR have gotten old on me and I want something physical 

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

Part of me thinks it feels rare to find anything to do with cgl irl is because not a lot of people are comfortable to share they participate in this kind of dynamic. It's not easy to share something like that, I know I told like two others, my best friend of 13 years thinks it's disgusting so I def. wouldn't tell her, lol.

 

It's hard to share things when people are instantly judemtntl of the way someone chooses to live. And most people associate ddlg with pedophilia and incest, sooo..

Edited February 17, 2017 by ☄ Cosmic Pengu ☆

[Guest DaddyNamedMike]

Part of me thinks it feels rare to find anything to do with cgl irl is because not a lot of people are comfortable to share they participate in this kind of dynamic. It's not easy to share something like that, I know I told like two others, my best friend of 13 years thinks it's disgusting so I def. wouldn't tell her, lol.

 

It's hard to share things when people are instantly judemtntl of the way someone chooses to live. And most people associate ddlg with pedophilia and incest, sooo..

I agree with that, a lot of people are judgmental from day 1, but I haven't really told anyone other then my ex littles or people I meet online that are into it too. For some reason though I see more girls coming out online about being into the dd/lg lifestyle. Of course guys are always willing to share but I think it is good more girls are coming out.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

As someone that has never had an online DDLG relationship, there are A LOT of daddy's and littles in my area. I live in a city though? Not sure if that makes a difference. But I will go in a shop/restaurant and probably 80% of the time I'll see an other little and get excited. 

[Frog]

My area, too. When I tried meetups or other sites, I didn't find anyone with any interests close to it at all. It depends on the area, and those of us who live in areas without DD/lg or BDSM groups of any sort, it's just something we have to deal with.

[Harley_Quinn]

I have a hard time finding friends in my area and so does daddy. I think it's just a self conscious thingy.

[Librarybunny]

I think we all have a hard time finding like minded people in our areas. I've seen that people either just aren't knowledgeable about it and don't even know the whole world exists or that they just don't feel comfortable expressing it to others. I've found plenty of people who are into DDLG in concept in my every day life through just being so open about my own preferences and experiences. That being said finding partners I think is harder, mostly because finding the right partner for you is a tough thing to begin with. Online has been a great resource for me though, in finding friends and partners, in the past.

[BigCityLittleGirl]

I don't think it's rare to find in real life, just think most people are shy or secretive about their personal kinks especially if it involves age play as most consider that taboo. I try to hint around about little stuff to see if the other person may be into it before I open up and use actual terms like little or daddy ect

[Mizgog]

Try living in the middle of nowhere in Australia..

[tayiie]

For me it's easy to find someone local. Though I live in the capital of my country. And I've also searched on sites that is basically only for my country. However. I've found that LDR work better for me. Sure physical contact is nice and all. But for some reason LDR is easier. And hugs and kisses.... It's nice but its a bit scary for me as well. Also may be helpful that I'm so easily amused and easy to punish and that's why it works so well. I've found also that the local people here... Ain't really my type. Or they take the distance for granted and doesn't see me frequently enough because "we are in the same city we can meet whenever" and that bothers me cause I enjoy spending time with the person if we now have so close to each other.

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

I met my babygirl on another site called the experience project, I wrote a post in a bdsm group there that caught her attention and she messaged me about it, that was Nov of 2015, we are meeting for the first time in person this coming week and I have plans to move to her state and live the rest of our lives together this year.

I don't believe littles are any more or less prominent in any area of the country, I believe they are everywhere, the greater the population the greater the odds of finding one. It is a lesser known and talked about area of bdsm because of the stigma it carries with it, even amongst the bdsm community it is widely viewed as taboo, I've sat in bdsm chat rooms and watched as the members there talked about all Daddies being pedophiles, sure there are some, as there are pedophiles from all walks of life and all professions, sadly many that claim to be a Daddy are labeled as pedophiles and littles as nymphomaniacs with daddy issues. It's no wonder people are hesitant to come out and be themselves, and sadly too not everyone that claims to be a daddy or little really are, you take all of that and then figure in the wide range of styles of Daddies and littles, various little age ranges, middles, brats, switches, those that don't age play at all like my babygirl, it's truly difficult to find someone that is a good match, but it does happen, my baby and I are proof, and I urge each and every one of you to not lose hope, do not give up! The right person for you is out there somewhere, you may have to go through a few people or some heartache to find them, but they are there, and they are looking and waiting for you!

[MisterMomo]

Maybe littles are not common anywhere! LoL ... specially since there is not that many that shows it in their everyday life.

 

Mommy found me during a party and never let me go... .. I think you can find someone childish.. interested in Disney or other smalls activities... play caretaker for her and buy her stuffies and before she knows it... she ll be your little! Hehe...

 

I ve beena litttle all my life and did not even know it was called like that. My guess is there is way more people interested in a relationship like that than there is people that identify as a little already.

 

From my playpen.. I wish you luck hehe