MDLB?

[KittyKatKatrina]

I feel like there are very few male littles, which is weird cuz the ABDL community was predominately male a while back. As a mommy domme, I feel SO out of place
Are we really that rare? I mean, I love LGs as well but LBs are super hard to find imo.
 

[Guest]

There are probably way more LGs but I have seen tons of LBs looking for mommies/ daddies and having a hard time finding mommies mainly . They are out there just way harder to come by I guess

[little.irish]

As a male little and submissive I know what you mean with feeling out of places for me it feels like it's all daddy dommes and female littles. Nice to see a mommy domme here x

[Guest Wally]

I'm a male little! There are definitely fewer MDs and LBs, I think because littles have more feminine traits while caregivers have more masculine traits.

Littles are more fragile, emotional, and vulnerable, while caregivers are more confident, protective, and authoritative.

I think it may be a bit more difficult for males to embrace a vulnerable position, and be comfortable with it.

And it may be more difficult for females to embrace a more authoritative role.

Thus, there are fewer MDs and LBs.

What do you think?

Anyways, I am always happy and excited to be in my littlespace, and let out a more emotional, bouncy, and feminine personality, instead of the usual male stoicism.

 

Don't feel out of place because there are fewer of us! That just means we are special and rare 

Edited February 16, 2017 by Wally

[submissiveboyjimmy]

I find it very frustrating looking for a mommy domme or a caregiver.  I've met a few off tumblr that I chat with on a regular basis but 99% of them have littles already, still nice to chat with though!  I agree with Wally, I exhibit more feminine traits which goes against cultural norms which makes it harder. The only solution is to keep at it, keep learning, keep meeting new people but the lack of cuddles kills me, physically painful!  I was given some advice by a good friend to just wait it out for the right person and keep improving myself but the loneliness is icky!

Edited February 20, 2017 by submissiveboyjimmy

[Guest Plebian]

I'm a male little! There are definitely fewer MDs and LBs, I think because littles have more feminine traits while caregivers have more masculine traits.

Littles are more fragile, emotional, and vulnerable, while caregivers are more confident, protective, and authoritative.

I think it may be a bit more difficult for males to embrace a vulnerable position, and be comfortable with it.

And it may be more difficult for females to embrace a more authoritative role.

Thus, there are fewer MDs and LBs.

What do you think?

Anyways, I am always happy and excited to be in my littlespace, and let out a more emotional, bouncy, and feminine personality, instead of the usual male stoicism.

 

Don't feel out of place because there are fewer of us! That just means we are special and rare 

 

As a LB I can vouch for that.

 

On the flipside: I haven't been able to find a MD yet. They feel like a properly rare breed. But who knows, maybe I'm not looking at the right places  .

[dawn]

I switch! Before I was with my Daddy I focused more on being a mommy Domme. I do quite miss domming but I do hope all the LBs or LGs out there looking for Mommies will find them eventually!

[KittyKatKatrina]

I'm a male little! There are definitely fewer MDs and LBs, I think because littles have more feminine traits while caregivers have more masculine traits.

Littles are more fragile, emotional, and vulnerable, while caregivers are more confident, protective, and authoritative.

I think it may be a bit more difficult for males to embrace a vulnerable position, and be comfortable with it.

And it may be more difficult for females to embrace a more authoritative role.

Thus, there are fewer MDs and LBs.

What do you think?

Anyways, I am always happy and excited to be in my littlespace, and let out a more emotional, bouncy, and feminine personality, instead of the usual male stoicism.

 

Don't feel out of place because there are fewer of us! That just means we are special and rare 

 

OMG. I always thought Wally would be a little. Ever since I first saw him in Pokemon X. 

[Guest Wally]

OMG. I always thought Wally would be a little. Ever since I first saw him in Pokemon X. 

 

Yesss! He is my favorite character from the games, he is such a perfect Little character so I thought it was fitting. My favorite pokemon used to be Sableye but now it's definitely Gardevoir

 

http://i.imgur.com/uCtF7QA.jpg?1

[pastel-princess]

I'm a switch but I'd love to try being a mommy one day!! I think LBs are so adorable honestly I just love them but they are more rare to come across

[Littlejacob]

We are out here, just no one wants us, they all want girls it seems.

So where does that leave us? Feeling like we don't matter or even exist.

 

Potty, there is a lot of love out here but n all us male littles, just waiting to be claimed

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I know this topic is kinda old, but there are lbs out there. There could be more lbs than lgs, but I don't know. I think the ratio of mommys to lbs is pretty low though.

[Guest CSL1992]

I am a Mommy Dom looking for either a little girl or little boy, but I am new to this and am  not sure where to start. I posted an add in Personals but so far haven't had any luck. Does anyone have any advice for me?

[LSubJamie]

I am a Mommy Dom looking for either a little girl or little boy, but I am new to this and am  not sure where to start. I posted an add in Personals but so far haven't had any luck. Does anyone have any advice for me?

I would say the best way is to be active in the community, there are a lot of lb's out there but it's best to get to know someone and see if things progress naturally. I know a big turn off for me regarding a potential mommy is trying to rush, calling me pet names right away, etc.

[Lonely_middle]

As a middle male, I find it hard to find a mommy dom. It's almost the same as if we are such a small portion of the lifestyle.

[LSubJamie]

As a middle male, I find it hard to find a mommy dom. It's almost the same as if we are such a small portion of the lifestyle.

 

I was lucky enough to find one mommy domme within a year and a half of looking, sadly things didn't work out but I did learn a lot.  As I've read more and more, I've found that submissive and littles are attracted to me so I've started learning how to be a daddy and think I might of found my first little though I've been friends with a few.  The majority of the dommes I've talked to seem to me to be submissive littles that I feel try to convince themselves that they're dommes because they have such a hard time finding a daddy.  They typically have little traits, cuddly, shy, watches cartoons and or anime, nervous. 

[Zacky]

Yaar; I'm a little, myself and indeed, Mommies are so tough to come by (unless you're looking to pay for a few hours - yuck)

 

Even worse is wanting to find one nearby, but c'est la vie.

[smsubbie]

Hi Kit Kat, 

Nice to hear about a Mummy Domme

 

LB's trying to find their MD's is like trying to find a unicorn at the end of a rainbow.

 

[Beepbookgirl]

Oh, I feel this. I'm a Domme/Mommy and I have mostly only had lgs, because lbs are so hard to find. The struggle is real. 

[Little kaiya]

I find it interesting that there are so many little boys saying they can't find a mommy and so many mommies saying they can't find a little boy. Daddy and I know plenty of both that are still seeking their partner. Edited February 20, 2022 by Little kaiya

[LeftyGuitar]

I think the reason lbs have trouble finding mommies and vice versa is because people are looking for specific things. Like some who are into abdl and others who are not.

[Guest Baby-Desires]

Uh huh, and it's more than just needing to match up a Mommy and little boy that have similar lifestyle interests. You also need to be compatible as adults and have some interests you can share and have similar goals in life for things like kids and marriage and where to live. No one should just settle, it's worth it to take our time and find the person that matches good with us

[peachprince]

i can totally atest to that. Me and my partner have a MDlb dynamic when im the CG, and its wonderful! But it was always super hard for him to find someone until he got together. 

Something else is that there is very little MD/lb merch to buy ive noticed ( i like to spoil my little boy and a lot of the time when we're window shopping, most things CG/l are labled DDlg and that gets both of us feeling a bit down. He's not into ABDL either so the few things that do pop up for little boys tends to be ABDL which yay for those that love it but sad for boys that dont

[Guest LittleMissMommy]

Awwww so sad to hear.

 

Women with the ENTJ personality type are 0.9% of the population. It makes statistical sense they would be hard to find.

 

LBs seem to be more frequent. I find it to be fairly common to be asked. As an older, and actual mommy, you need a big stick to fight off all the 20 year olds when you go on tinder trying to find someone your own age.

 

MDs might find they like to switch too, which might make them look for a LB who can also be a desirable DD, and that seems pretty rare. A mutually reciprocal caregiving based relationship with the ability to share power imbalance, intentionally. I hope everybody gets to find what they are looking for.

[Guest LittleMissMommy]

i can totally atest to that. Me and my partner have a MDlb dynamic when im the CG, and its wonderful! But it was always super hard for him to find someone until he got together.

 

Something else is that there is very little MD/lb merch to buy ive noticed ( i like to spoil my little boy and a lot of the time when we're window shopping, most things CG/l are labled DDlg and that gets both of us feeling a bit down. He's not into ABDL either so the few things that do pop up for little boys tends to be ABDL which yay for those that love it but sad for boys that dont