Dear Daddys

[BabyGirl32015]

I know that you think your the most perfect man in the world

Just because you want to take care of your little girl

But bombarding their inbox

And spamming them real late

Is not the way to get a first date

 

I know you think its the best way to show how you care

But we all know your messaging someone else on here

Because let's be honest, there are a lot of Little's out there

Who are just begging for attention from you guys I swear

 

I know you just want to be loved

But love doesn't happen in a day

So don't treat it like it works that way

 

Im not saying this to be sassy or mean

But stop with the blabber about wanting me

Cut the bullshit, and say what you mean!

 

 

[Guest Coyote420]

Hahah sorry, i just find it cute and funny that you wrote all that in verses

 

Yes , a lot of people are overly pushy, but don't be mistaken, that's not only caregivers but littles as well, and I have beeen on the recieving end of such behaviour as well so I speak first hand.

 

Each have their own likes and dislikes, I personally find that kind of behaviour unbeccoming as well , but some like it i guesse ... So just put it on you profile in CAPS saying that this annoys the living hell out of you , and if the potential caregiver proceeds with that kind of behaviour , then he either didn't even bother to read ur profile before messeging you and just messeged u cause he liked ur pic, or he's simply beyond help.

 

I have ignored people in the past cause of shit like this and then they started spamming me even harder, saying how I'm rude and what not, and that was after making myself clear about what i think about this kind of behaviour ... like ... no comment.

[Hurndauke]

Well said! 

 

 

To put it short and simple, I've had people spam my inbox deliberately saying I'm rude and what not when I don't respond for long periods of time. I liked the rhyming as well, lmaoo. 

[DaddyBrew]

I guess some guys can be too much needy, but that happens everywhere, but here in ddlg world they think is a must!

 

I agree with you, love doesn't happen in one day or in two messages!

[Guest DaddyDean]

Well said and i must say i love the creativity..  This phenomenon is just not relegated to the DD/lg world.  It is prevalent on any dating site.  Desperation is not attractive!

[Antoinette]

I guess guys are really uninterested in me but even when I was single this would literally never happen to me and even when I ran a (quite) popular NSFW Instagram it didn't happen either.

 

Perhaps I'm lucky? Idk this just always seems like such a non-issue or one that's blown of proportion, imo. 

[MonsieurSerge]

I'm too new here to say for sure what happens with littles but in general, yes, guys can be rude and thoughtless. But I could not let this go without commenting that guys have frustrations of their own in dealing with rejection.

 

So my response is by way of a haiku:

 

Hard to know intent

often truth we do  present

you spurn as not meant

[Tarquinious]

I think the biggest thing missing today are gentlemen.

Learning is difficult i have found alpha male on youtube.

I think on this site because it is ddlg they try and play the part without understanding cultivation of friendship is first required.

 

Regards

[Frog]

I've had this same problem with littles. I'll admit maybe some or most may have been little wannabes. One or two messages or days, and suddenly tossing that Daddy label around. Two have even said I should visit. Either way, immediately saying you're someone's caregiver or little or kitten is past being creepy.

[DaddyBrew]

I've had this same problem with littles. I'll admit maybe some or most may have been little wannabes. One or two messages or days, and suddenly tossing that Daddy label around. Two have even said I should visit. Either way, immediately saying you're someone's caregiver or little or kitten is past being creepy.

 

I had this problem once with a little one, she went too far in like 2 days, so i talked to her and then blocked everywhere. i guess you can find creepy ones everywhere not only in ddlg. 

[Guest Plebian]

But bombarding their inbox

And spamming them real late

Is not the way to get a first date

 

Ha! Made me giggle. Unfortunately there's much truth in it.

 

But hey, cut us some slack too. It's tough out there!

[Antoinette]

 

I'm too new here to say for sure what happens with littles but in general, yes, guys can be rude and thoughtless. 

 

 

People can be rude and thoughtless. It's unfair to pin it onto one gender.