Nervous about being a good little....

[Sweet Little Kitten]

I have a very unique situation going on right now regarding communication between me and my daddy. I'm using a computer provided and monitored by my school. That is my only method of communication.. And Im working to get a phone. Im trying. But It seems like I cant get it fast enough... Im trying to be a good little but im nervous because I feel like im not good enough. I can never take all the pictures daddy wants of me, I cant message him effectively (we use email) and I cant see him every day. For having a long distance daddy that is really important so im just struggling... I have no idea what to do to make myself feel better... 

 

~Nervous Little Kitten 

[Guest]

Be kind to yourself and be patient. Do what you are able and don't beat yourself up over what you can't help. I am sure your daddy understand your situation. You gotta be carful what you do in a school computer cuz they do have a right to monitor it. (I think at least where I live they can)

 

Both my daddies are LDs and it can be tough at times trying to be a good girl when they are so far away. But my best advice is to always be yourself and always be honest

 

Wishing you both the best

Edited February 14, 2017 by Arya

[Guest Coyote420]

I get the nervousness and insecurities, but you have to realize that a TRUE daddy doesen't really care about those pics you are sending him. He should be understanding of your sittuation in case that he really is a true daddy and not just a creep looking to get pics (which I hope isnt the case). 

 

Idk if this insecurity is cause he is pressuring you or if it's cause of ur past experiances with guys that you've developed a sort of inferiority, but you should know that in no way are you not good enough! 

[Little AbbeyJane]

Good advice from people there. All good things come to those who wait. You might be able to help yourself with a little buying and selling of clothing or other items....... have look at free ways internet avenue for advertising items, even if you only make a few % profit on something ans with that you gradually up-buy something and sell it onto to somebody else. Friend of mine does art work, costs are fairly minimal and she sells some works to supplement the income. Are you good with art? Maybe you can do house sitting for people for a few extra dollars? There's no time like now to think outside the box and at avenues for a little extra income.

[Guest ASerpent]

Would it be an option, that your daddy supports you on your way getting a phone? I mean, when communication and sending pics is so important for him too, why not buy the phone for you or you share the costs?

[Tarquinious]

A True Daddy doesnt request what is not attainable or realistic.

I keep saying each relationship is different however most Daddy's control all social media and contacts.

From what you have said and the info something is off.

A daddy will care and lift you not leave you with these doubts.

Assess what you are doing and if it is illegal wait.

[Guest Appacheian]

I agree with Tarquinius. A daddy guides, mentors and nurtures you to be the best you can. He doesn't make requests that make you feel insecure. He should understand your communication limitations. I suggest your daddy does some research on daddy responsibilies.

[Sweet Little Kitten]

Would it be an option, that your daddy supports you on your way getting a phone? I mean, when communication and sending pics is so important for him too, why not buy the phone for you or you share the costs?

 It is already "bought" im just having to gather the money for it. 

[Princess-P]

Why not use a prepaid phone? Any phone will run off of WiFi from home. Even if its not hooked up. But a prepaid phone is really cheap. My 6 year old pays for her own with her allowance. She only has data so she can play Pokemon go but still. That's $10 a month. And I believe other prepaid plans offer unlimited texting nation wide with 100 minutes talk time for $20.

[mylittlesidewearsblack]

Have you thought about google voice? It's free and you can use it to text and make calls.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I don't know if the phone you're getting/have is a smart phone, but there's lots of free texting apps so long as you have data. Which I know many are like $10-20 a month. Just an option.