Valentine's Day is so hard ...

[Guest angelus_puella]

I lost my daddy and I am already starting to get anxious about being alone tomorrow. Anyone have any suggestions for how I can get through the day without getting too upset? I'm sick to my stomach thinking about it.

[Guest syther]

Well, apart from gorging on chocolate like I have done in previous years, just do whatever makes you happy, best thing I ever did was just pick a random person and started talking to them on my friend list, if it's someone you have great conversation with the day goes by in the blink of an eye

[Daddy's Meg]

I think it's so unfortunate that Valentine's day is seemingly about a partner.

 

I suggest doing what I do, share the love with anyone you care about! I make cards for my whole family and treats too. All love matters as far as I'm concerned. Everyone deserves it, not just a partner. You might find yourself feeling better by doing for others!

[Guest angelus_puella]

Thanks for the advice. I just miss the intimacy and affection. I go without a lot.

[Elissa-little]

Perhaps make it a self care day, go do all the things you like to do. go to the salon or the zoo or for a massage or something perhaps? you could have a nice hot bath and have a candle.

Hope you can have a good day 

sending good vibes 

xx

[princesspixie]

Perhaps make it a self care day, go do all the things you like to do. go to the salon or the zoo or for a massage or something perhaps? you could have a nice hot bath and have a candle.

Hope you can have a good day 

sending good vibes 

xx

 

I agree with the above. Just make it a 'me' day. Do what makes you feel happy, treat yourself to something nice, watch some good movies, or whatever it is you like to do.

 

i think of valentines day as a day of love in general, and that includes loving yourself. it seems i'm always single on valentines day, and i still think it's a nice holiday, because it's a day i get to pamper myself and make myself feel special

[Little AbbeyJane]

Find somebody to just got out with, chat a bit and allow yourself to dream and express those, no sense in being cooped-up in the house miserable for all the day. Celebrate that life is actually quite wonderful, and that perhaps we are the only planet currently in the multi-verses with life of any kind on it. being alone, at home, is dull, boring and bad for anybody, even a little or a daddy or anybody vanilla or not. Mental health is important. If you want, take your stuffie with you, and your mobile phone and take piccies of stuffy and you, do some selfies and post these in your profile.

[missym]

agreed, valentines day can be a very sad time for some people...

[Guest angelus_puella]

I got through it! Woo-hoo!