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I've mostly tried to ignore my little side in the year or so I've known about it, but today I actually went out and bought a set of pacifiers. And I feel amazing but kind of terrified. They're pretty awesome :3 I love sheep. Any thoughts on how I can feel more comfortable? Or anything, I'm just looking for people to talk to about all this. xx Ally
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Hello Ally!
 

I see your a newbie, so welcome :)
Congratulations on going out and buying yourself some pacifiers.
I don't use pacifiers myself. I'm age five, so I'm all grown up for pacifiers! 
The only thing I can suggest is by mixing with like minded people!

I was new to this whole thing a few months ago and felt exactly the same.
I joined this website and started to mix with like minded people
and everything just seem's pretty much natural now.
Which means I can actually enjoy little space,
and I can go into little space more often.

Remember to go at your own pace.
Don't feel rushed to do anything.
There is no right way or wrong way of doing thing's.

Don't be afraid to ask questions and seek continued support.
I've learnt this site is very non-judgemental
and full of loverly daddies/mummies and littles
that are more then happy to help you!

My inbox is always open if you want to chat.
^_^  :heart:

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It sounds like you're already on the path to becoming more comfortable. Normalising DD/lg and your littlespace is a good place to start. So accepting what you do and doing what you like (within rationale and reason) will help you take the steps into realising that this is just a part of who you are and what you like. Perhaps doing completely 'non-little' things with a 'little' twist like baking cookies/cakes and putting your favourite Disney/Dreamworks/cartoon character on them. Colouring, if you don't want to go full-blow childlike cartoon colouring books there's always markers and adult colouring books! But overall feeling more comfortable will take time and acceptance of yourself. It'll come, don't worry - it just takes some getting used to.

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One of my long-distance little friends used to have the same issue. She couldn't get used to all of the little stuff that came with being into ddlg. So she started to babysit young children and hang around her little siblings more often. So by doing that she had to be around the toddler/baby/kiddie elements a lot more. The longer she babysat them, the more comfortable and familiar she became with things like: sippy cups, kids shows, cartoon themed dishes, whining, pouting, and all that good stuff!

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