Wanting non-sexual dynamics with a friend

[fluffiepinkiecutie]

Hi peopleee!! ^^

A little warning: it's a bit long post, and I know that billions of people already posted similar threads, but I felt like I had to make my own.

I'm a little without a daddy, but in the past months I've been in contact with a guy. It isn't nothing really serious, officially we're just friends, but when it comes to facts we are not. We kiss, we see each other in its own underwear, but we don't do nothing really sexual. We are kinda waiting for know really well each other before doing anything serious, we don't want to rush.

However, we talk a little about our kinks, we also shared our bdsm test results', so he knows that I'm a little and I like ageplay, being submissive and stuff, but he doesn't know really much about this.

In these weeks I've been thinking that I would like to experiment some non-sexual DDlg dynamics with him, but I don't know how to explain DDlg to him. If he will like DDlg, he will surely want to try some dynamics, so the major issue is introducing him. He already knows about my love story with pacis. How can I do that, considering that I'm shy when it comes to these things?

Thank you in advance ^^

[Magi]

Slowly and carefully, communication is everything. Slowly talk to him and take your time, it will work if you put the effort in. Also maybe show him here there is some great posts to help guide him. I know of one on tumblr i love and would recommend.

[Little AbbeyJane]

Given my start up experience too was test-the-waters, I can suggest that you be the one to initiate the sexual/ intimacy contact with him. Some might call it being very forward, but I think many men are aware of their power and ability and are careful about displaying this to many people, especially somebody expressing their deeper desires. Many men won't make the first move, so I think that like me, you have to make sure it is done. Its a brave and bold move for anyone, let alone a little, but i think that you will find it is easier than you think/ reckon. Be bold.

Edited February 13, 2017 by Little AbbeyJane