sayhall Posted February 12, 2017 Report Posted February 12, 2017 I've only recently joined this site and the ddlg life but am curious about many things. The main one being am I too young to have a little/baby girl as I'm only 20. Plus only been interested in ddlg fir about 2 months
Guest Posted February 12, 2017 Report Posted February 12, 2017 No you are not too young. As long as you are 18+ you are good to go. Just gotta find the right person for you. Like I am 25 and my daddy Steve is 22, and then my daddy Kerry is 27. (I am poly ) but it's all about finding the person who is right and you guys click. Age is not an issue. 1
sayhall Posted February 12, 2017 Author Report Posted February 12, 2017 Thanks for a quick reply aria in also would be interested in knowing what the real best way to find my little is as the forums can take time and atm I don't really have that luxury of reading through them
Guest ASerpent Posted February 12, 2017 Report Posted February 12, 2017 It's all about two consenting adults. You are an adult, since you are over 18, so everything shall be fine
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted February 12, 2017 Report Posted February 12, 2017 Truthfully reading through them is the best option. You say you don't have time to... if you don't have the time to spend reading and learning and getting to know someone... can you really provide for them on the emotional level they need to be their Daddy? Most (though certainly not all) little are needy. We require lots of time and attention. As a little I would be concerned about entering into this dynamic with anyone who didn't have time to read through posts or things to learn more. 7
DaddysMonkey Posted February 17, 2017 Report Posted February 17, 2017 (edited) Hellooooo there.... HOOO-LEE-FUCK. Daddy's_babygirl hit the nail on the head for me. No , you are not too young to be a Daddy. There are Daddies and Mommies who are 18 , the majority of the time it is about your mindset. I've met young men and women who are 18 , but they are extremely mature and have old souls. On the other hand there are men and women who are well past 18 , and in their 30's who are so immature most people their age can't stand it. Age is only a number. Now , I feel that you saying you don't have the time (luxury) of reading threads.. But you have enough time to post one yourself ? You have enough time to read the replies to your own thread but not enough to really give thought and read about a little who is searching for a Daddy ? Like Daddy's_babygirl said , most littles are very needy , and require a lot of effort and attention. It seems to me , because of you having enough time for yourself by posting this and reading replies to your OWN thread but not enough time to read a post someone has (most likely) put hard work into , that you my friend are either lazy or not willing to put enough energy into someone else and selfish. This in itself is a big red flag for me , it seems more like a fishing for littles to come to you , rather than a real effort being put into finding a suitable partner (despite what age you are). I may be harsh and call it what you will , but I think if you are looking for a partner let alone a LITTLE .. then you need to put effort in plain and simple. Buck up , and read threads. Read personals. If you have time to post your own thread and read THESE replies then I certainly believe you have time to skim through some personals. Hope this helps. Edited February 17, 2017 by Daddysmonkey 2
Guest Princessaj Posted February 18, 2017 Report Posted February 18, 2017 Welcome! You have a great opportunity to learn here. Really, it's not about AGE, it's about MATURITY and PREPARATION. Life is LONG! Take your TIME. It may take you a very LONG TIME to become a Daddy Dom. "How long does it take to become a Daddy Dom? I think the answer is, "When you learn all the things (RESEARCH) a little wants a Daddy Dom to be, you are prepared and MAKE THE TIME to do that important job." littles/middles know that they are ready for a DD when they make the TIME to do research and discover/know what they want in a DD/DDlg relationship. A DD and lg that have done their research have a wonderful opportunity to make a great couple. An experienced DD that wants to teach and the lg wants to learn/research, have a wonderful opportunity to make a great couple. An experienced lg that wants to teach and a DD that wants to learn/research, have a wonderful opportunity to make a great couple. A new DD and new lg that commit to do the research together, also have a wonderful opportunity to make a great couple. A DD that is not committed and doesn't know that being a DD takes tons, tons, tons, tons of TIME and RESEARCH to be a DD is not ready to be a DD. The most important thing to know is that the most researched and naturally prepared DD's are on this site and you are competing with them for a little. Take the TIME to become a Hero. I wish you the very best. Hugs.
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