Totally new to this all advice welcome

[Guest Shygirl95]

Hi,

 

I'm very new to the BDSM world and very curious. Not entirely sure if it's what I really want or if it's for me but I don't love to learn more:)

 

The DD/lg dynamic really appeals to me but I'm not totally sure if it's for me and I don't want to make the mistake of rushing into anything I'm not ready for. I'd love some advice from both Daddies and littles!

 

Thank you:)

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Well.

What do you feel you might identify as? What draws you to this dynamic and lifestyle? I feel I could give better advice with more info...

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

My advice would be to explore, stay with your curiosity, know that it's ok to take your time to figure out what you like and what you don't. Go with what you like first of all and build on that and most importantly know your boundaries...you can always push them later if you feel like it, but know you're boundaries and stick to them!

[Guest Appacheian]

As a daddy I would say read and observe. Don't commit yourself to anything until you've researched bdsm and it's variants. You will find your place in time thst is really you. It could be a blend of different dynamics so don't pigeon hole yourself into thinking things have to be done a set way. Bdsm is more like an artists palette and you choose the colours you want and mix them any way you like.