"Whatever you want"

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Sure, it's nice to hear sometimes but I suck at making decisions!

If I ask what he wants for dinner, he'll say whatever you want, I can't make a decision on our dinner! I'll make suggestions and it's still "whatever you want" ... I don't freaking know!!

Anyone else relate to the frustration?

[angel-k47]

yes! for everything! like i know he wants me to be happy and have anything i want but daddyyyyyyyyyyyyyy i want you to have some input sometimes  

[Guest Loki]

I can relate so much! And I'm that way with everyone. I truly don't care I just want to spend time with people, and I much rather have someone else make the decisions. It's mentally exhausting for me to actually choose. I guess I'm more extreme than most people, though. I mean I have stuff I won't choose (spicy foods yuck) but yeah...

[gah!ghost]

I can certainly relate and I think my lady friend could as well. We're both horrible at making decisions. 

[Daddy's Meg]

I used to have this problem all the time. We used to actually flip coins sometimes. It was so frustrating trying to figure things out. Add on top of it social anxiety and it was a quick trip to meltdown Ville.

 

Now I focus on what I *don't* want and Daddy decides around that. It's so much easier on us both now.

[ButterscotchBunny]

I feel the same way. I saw a picture of someone who set up a toy spinner to choose a restaurant for them, It might be useful.

[SharkPrince]

Every single second of my life

[alotalittle]

I most definitely relate to this! I hate choosing where to eat because I'm not picky about it at all and my partner sort of is. I'm always just stoked that we're going to be eating food, so it never matters to me. But he'll ask where I want to eat, and one of two things happens: 1. I'll say "I don't know" and he'll get fussy that I don't name a place OR 2. I'll list off place after place after place and none of them are what he wants. Either way, he ends up choosing where we eat haha

[Guest Appacheian]

As a daddy I'd like to voice my opinion on decision making. Daddy does it because daddy takes responsibility and understands his little needs that.

[Hurndauke]

Most of the time I'll just cook whatever I want, haha.

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

I think it's the cutest reply for a little to say "Daddy I wanted you to pick" that gets me every time

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I always ask Daddy what he wants to do, we're in a LDR so Skype limits us anyway. But Daddy always wants me to choose, I don't care, I just want to do something with Daddy!

[IchigoHime]

This was a huge issue with my now ex Daddy. Even when it came to presents, I had to pick out everything. It really made things difficult. Isn't part of the role of Daddy to be lead decision maker?