my mother saw me with my paci

[nekochxn]

so i never posted here before but im really sad and worried and i wanted to share this with someone.

i usually sleep with my paci and today my mother woke me up and saw it and she said such horrible things about me and shouted at me and also said she was worried about my relationship.

later i told her that i bought it to help with my stress and that j grind my teeth a lot and it hurts my jaw so the paci helped me and she understood.

however im so paranoid and so close to having panic attacks because i have panic disorder and whenever something like this happens i get so stressed out.

my mommy is going to stay a few days in my house and my mother and her just met her once and for seconds and im SO AFRAID im terrified i really want mommy to come but i want to cry just thinking about what can happen if my mother doesn't like her or she find out.

i know the problem is solved but im still so anxious and i have no friends in the ddlg community and i just wanted to talk about it.

[Little_wolf114]

Hi,It's okay. Just let her come over. It might help if you do let her come over and meet your mother. 

 

Also would love to be friends

[Guest Loki]

Stick to the truth but know you have no obligation to tell your mother anything that doesn't harm you, the household or anything else. It's a paci, not cocaine. I know anxiety and panics can disrupt even the smallest things but know you can survive it. You're strong.

 

Remember to breathe. Remember you're a human being and are entitled to your needs as long as they harm none.

 

You got this!

[nekochxn]

Hi,It's okay. Just let her come over. It might help if you do let her come over and meet your mother.

 

Also would love to be friends

I hope everything goes well, thank you. and yay im gonna send you a friend resquest.

[nekochxn]

Stick to the truth but know you have no obligation to tell your mother anything that doesn't harm you, the household or anything else. It's a paci, not cocaine. I know anxiety and panics can disrupt even the smallest things but know you can survive it. You're strong.

 

Remember to breathe. Remember you're a human being and are entitled to your needs as long as they harm none.

 

You got this!

Thank you that helped me so much, I'm much better now c:

[DollDirector]

My first two cents on this would be,that your real parent and your cg meeting,is an unusual situation; As a cg I would be pretty reluctant about that. 

If this situation is making you so afraid perhaps it means you should postpone it for the time being.

 

 

 

[EbonyKittenPrincess]

My first two cents on this would be,that your real parent and your cg meeting,is an unusual situation; As a cg I would be pretty reluctant about that. 

If this situation is making you so afraid perhaps it means you should postpone it for the time being.

 

What do you mean by unusual situation ?

My caregiver is also my boyfriend and knows my parents very well. It seems actually pretty common to me that your partner knows your parents ?

[MisterMomo]

Yeah.. Mommy knows my parents and I know hers... Her parents and mine even spend time all together at restaurant or activities... we are engaged and they get along very well .. not uncommon for me.

[DollDirector]

Well,I was sticking to the situation described by nekochxn who says " I am so afraid ... about what can happen if my mother finds out ". I think it is highly understandable for young people to want to keep a secret garden; Especially when dealing with a parent who as described starts by shouting.

Even old people are perfectly entitled to a secret garden,by the way...