Feelings

February 6, 2017

So me and my daddy have been together for a few years now- only online. And lately our lives have been soooo hectic, I haven't been able to express my little side, as hard as that is to do online only. The thing is, I'm full of anxiety and shyness anyways, and recently there's been talk of a big visit/ meeting with my daddy, and I want to soooo badly, but I'm worried I'll be too self conscious and anxious to express my little side in front of my daddy. I know he's going to be very comforting and doesn't expect anything of me, but it's a part of me that I want to share with him, but don't know how to in person. This is really concerning to me, so any advice would help?

I've already talked to him a bit about me concerns, but the answer is usually that he doesn't expect anything and that we'll just kinda go with the flow, but I'm a very over organized person and like to have everything (even unreasonable things) planned down to a tee.

Edited February 9, 2017 by Sweet_babygirl

February 6, 2017

You probably just need to do what you're already thinking--go with the flow. You don't need to rush anything, and if he acts like a daddy to you in person, then I'm sure it'll bring out your little side. I know that I can't choose when I go into little space, and it's okay if you can't either. You've known him for years, so there's really no reason to be nervous, but I understand what it's like meeting someone in person for the first time. You guys are old friends by now, just don't worry about it and it'll happen with time. (っ˘ω˘ς )

If you stress out too much, it might keep you from being little. I know a lot of littles with anxiety have problems bringing out their little side, too. Maybe look in these forum topics:

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17269-littles-with-mental-illness/?hl=anxiety&do=findComment&comment=90997

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/15141-littles-with-mental-illnesses/?do=findComment&comment=81096

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17101-being-a-little-with-anxiety/?do=findComment&comment=90417

Tell him how you feel, and if you know he doesn't expect anything with you, then you can relax because there's no worry!