walking contradiction

[princesspixie]

is anyone else's little side completely opposite than their non-little side?

 

non-little side: always was told how mature i was for my age growing up. i'm usually quiet, super serious, quite unemotional, and have a resting face that rivals that of the Evil Queen (actually have been told i look a bit like the Evil Queen Regina from Once Upon a Time). i dont get excited about much at all, tend to dress in black and grey, with dark muted tones. don't tend to like childish behavior and excitement. it's the side that prefers quiet get togethers, going to art galleries and museums, discussing politics, philosophy, and science. i want to be independent, self-sufficient. dont need anyone to take care of me.

 

little side: bubbly and bouncy, gets excited about lots of stuff, voice is higher pitched, and quite smiley. wear softer, lighter colors. i just want to watch disney movies and color and cuddle and go to parks. instead of serious discussions, i'll want to talk about like, 'if you could have a talking animal friend, what kind of animal would it be?" and stuff like that. i dont want to be independent. i want someone to take care of me, be my protector, play with me, cheer me up when i'm sad.

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

I relate to this so much. My little side reflects all the things I can't be or don't want to let myself be when I'm adulting. It's what is so great about being a little. It's extremely freeing

Edited February 5, 2017 by ♥ Lee ♥

[Daddy's Meg]

I can somewhat relate. Except mine are much more squished together. Too much separation makes me feel like I'm hiding something. I find I can have the best of bothsides and allow myself to feel them as they come.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Big me: is a mother and a manager. Overthinks everything. Trusts very few people. Shy, quiet and backward. Keep to myself. Leader.

 

Little me: bubbly and hyper, enjoys playing around and super childish. Pushes Daddy's buttons. Follower. Shy and tends to hide behind Daddy in social settings.

 

I suppose I'm a bit of a contraction myself.

[BabyKittenPaws]

Exactly! I totally relate to this

Me: *wears dark eyeliner and boots. Resting bitch face. Likes intellegent conversation and total literature enthisaist* 

 

Little me: *dumbly walks around making crazy stories, super bubbly and bright*

[princesspixie]

it's just such a nice feeling being little. spend so much time not allowing myself to feel much at all, being serious and all mature. it's such a relief when i let myself be little and silly and feel excited, to let go of worries and be nurtured ^ _ ^

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I can kinda relate, I'm very dominant in my career, full face of makeup, fake tan, very mature, talks about politics and science, dresses for people my age (21), very mature, very serious, allowed glitter...

 

Then I'm like a stereotypical 3 year old, shy, childlike, giggly, obsessed with cartoons and sweeties, making daddy talk to my teddys, colouring, not allowed glitter, having daddy order things for me, a bit whiny when he makes me do things I don't want to like eating haha. I'm also extremely submissive as little me, where big me is very dominant.

 

I should point out though, if I'm around friends/family then they're squished together.

[Littlebadbunny]

My little bunny side and my "grown up" side are similar but different

 

I am kinda of a loud, outgoing, excitable person. I love adventures and creating, and I am really hard working and spirited. I am pretty independent and hate to ask for help. I will stubbornly continue to do something like a physical task and struggle though it before asking for help, such as carrying a heavy item, or moving something. I will always ask for help if it is more of a thinking problem. I am more alternative, boots, band shirts, dark lipstick. I want to talk about music and movies and folklore, and beer, and baking and cooking. I like dark colors and horror movies

 

Little bunny side is very clingy and needy and I am still pretty spirited but easier to control. I love letting go and following daddy's commands and obeying him. Not something my grown up side would do. I gush over glitter and bright colors and don't like to converse a whole lot. I want to make bunny noises or "thump" my feet or little grunts, shaking of my head, I like being more quiet as my little bunny side. Little bunny me is a bit lazy too. I like to wear a lot of florals when I am a little bunny as well

Edited February 26, 2017 by Littlebadbunny

[BigCityLittleGirl]

Same! I'm pretty bitchy, serious, into politics, deep talks about the universe, workaholic, wears nothing but black... But I also love glitter, bouncing around, pastel pink, collecting stuffies...

 

Is it weird I love to act childish but honestly can't stand real children?? :/ I find myself annoyed after an hour with them lol

[Littlebadbunny]

Same! I'm pretty bitchy, serious, into politics, deep talks about the universe, workaholic, wears nothing but black... But I also love glitter, bouncing around, pastel pink, collecting stuffies...

Is it weird I love to act childish but honestly can't stand real children?? :/ I find myself annoyed after an hour with them lol

Same here!!!! I am not a fan of being around kids unless they are kids I know or have an attachment to like cousins, I am excited to be an auntie when my friends start having kids but random kids heck no!

 

People ask me and Daddy when we are having kids all the time and we never want them! I am too big of a kid to take care of any myself lol!

[BigCityLittleGirl]

Omg same! My family is pressuring us to have kids. I will NEVER have any! I worked at a call once and it scarred me forever haha I just have zero patience. I find myself thinking 'can you just grow up already?!' LOL! Even as a kid I knew I didn't want children.

[Baby Neko]

Big me also likes darker style things and wears mostly black while little me loves cute things and pink and glitter and toys, makes picking out my clothes difficult because half way through the day I'll wanna wear something else!

But my personality is pretty much always the same, I'm shy and I only talk to or show excitement and emotion to people I know. I basically seem cold and aloof to strangers but really I'm a sweetheart who just wants love and care. Also, even when I'm 'big' I still need a lot of help with things.

[Mara]

I can relate to this soo much. You just described me haha.

[Guest Tsubaki]

I can relate so much right now it's ridiculous! Lol!

 

In real life I'm mostly reserved and polite. I like wearing black, grey or white in monochrome style. I don't go out often and when I do it's to my friend's house or an art gallery or library. I don't have a resting bitch face though (but I really do love Regina's wardrobe as the evil Queen. Seriously, that drama!) Instead people usually ask me for directions XD

 

And when I feel like being "little" I like flowy dresses that are short or sheer. I like to feel precious and beautiful. I think my little is some exotic 'child like empress' ( please check out The Never Ending Story for that reference ) who lives in a palace made of crystals and pearls in a place where winter and snow are eternal. Although it could be a castle in the clouds a la Les Miserables...

 

Funny thing is that I've never actually seen real snow ever in my life because I live in the Highveld so lots of dry grass and mostly warm winters lol!

[Goth_in_Kigurumis]

Bless this thread! ♡

[BigCityLittleGirl]

DaddysLittleNeavie Maybe you feel that way bc adult like responsibilities can be hard to do if you have no one around to help. I hope you have a nice therapist to help guide you so you won't be scared to be an adult when you need to be therapy has helped me a lot in that aspect. Edited March 3, 2017 by BigCityLittleGirl