new to being a daddydom

[pulsekaraku]

since we started dating, well even before we started dating she told me she was a little, confused at first she told me everything about it but its my first time ever being in this role as a daddy dom, I've read up on it and it amazed me how much that role fits me but i could use advice on how to start out

[missym]

Best advice I could give is just be yourself dude, if you truly are a daddydom it will  come naturally to you.  In my experience (albeit short) it is those who think they have to fit a certain stereotype of being in a ddlg relationship who run into the most trouble.

[tayiie]

From what I know, if you can find yoursl f in the whole daddydom role then I think it comes naturally.all you really need is to communicate with your significant other to find out what she expects from you, what she wants and needs.

[lilsnoopy]

This site has a lot of great resources for people new to dd/lg. A few links I would really suggest reading are: 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5454-lets-discuss-healthy-caregiving/?hl=healthy+caregiving

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12727-a-starting-point-for-rules-rewards-punishments/

 

~Yes, being a daddy dom requires a certain type of personality. But it sounds,based on your post, like you are. You'll grow more caregiver like in nature. I look at my partner now. He has always had a caregiver aspect to him but over the time we spent today and just getting experience with me that side of him has developed so much. There are some things you only learn from experience. Be confident, understanding, caring, and strict if she needs it. Also take it slow. Build trust first on a person to person level before diving it; as trust is a HUGE part of the caregiver/little dynamic. Every relationship is different so while there is great general advice you will find your own style with time. 

[MrWrongUk]

You dont have to be a daddy dom..you can just be a daddy...i think they are close but some girls when the dom is added have diffrent needs. If u wanna chat or anything im happy to talk to anyone who is new to this. Im no expert but i try