Am i Ugly bacause i am not avaerage.

[Littl3_twix]

If you cannot acde[t her at her worst how can you accept her at her best? Has always been my motto. does anybody see this as true.  I am a little that battles depression and schizopgrenia. and PTSD as well as bipolar.so more often than not normally is a bad day with me. And i have had CG's refuse to care for me for it and that always makes me feel worse!

I have always been needy and have needed attention more than the avrage little and it makes feel like a attention seeker when i a not. I am also afraid to speak up because i dont want to make others mad! mad is bad and scary. Im super venting today, im sorry! I just feel since i am not avrage it makes me less loved. Do you doms feel that way ! what do you think littles?

Just feeling lost !

[Guest Loki]

You are not ugly! And you are not needy for requiring a CG that will be able to handle you. Don't get discouraged by CGs that drop you due to their inability to care for you. Some are giving you a gift since they know they can't handle it and they want what's best for you - the others are selfish doodles and you deserve better than them.

 

As for the mental problems, and I'm sure someone is going to disagree with me, but I think every single person on the planet has at least one problem. Don't feel bad for having mental issues! You aren't alone. For example, I have depression and my childhood has given me social anxiety and major trust issues.

 

You will find your CG. It takes time. As my aunt told me: you'll kiss a lot of frogs before finding your king!

 

Or your Queen, if that's what's you're looking for.

[Littl3_twix]

You are not ugly! And you are not needy for requiring a CG that will be able to handle you. Don't get discouraged by CGs that drop you due to their inability to care for you. Some are giving you a gift since they know they can't handle it and they want what's best for you - the others are selfish doodles and you deserve better than them.

 

As for the mental problems, and I'm sure someone is going to disagree with me, but I think every single person on the planet has at least one problem. Don't feel bad for having mental issues! You aren't alone. For example, I have depression and my childhood has given me social anxiety and major trust issues.

 

You will find your CG. It takes time. As my aunt told me: you'll kiss a lot of frogs before finding your king!

 

Or your Queen, if that's what's you're looking for.

that is so beutifully said! i love it thank you! Makes me feel better. We all have issues but is how we recat! i was trying to gain perpective and you helped thankyou

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

Not ugly.

 

Some people are just not capable of giving us what we need. That doesn't make you ugly! It's ok to need a little special care and attention. There will be someone that can offer that to you, sometimes it just takes a while for us to meet the person that can offer what we need.

[Guest Loki]

that is so beutifully said! i love it thank you! Makes me feel better. We all have issues but is how we recat! i was trying to gain perpective and you helped thankyou

You're welcome! I'm glad I could help.

[Frog]

(No, I'm a not a frog that needs to be kissed before you find your prince...  )

 

I don't know you, but you're not ugly. I think you can find a CG who is better at dealing with you sooner than you think. I'm not going to lie; it won't be today or tomorrow. Here's the thing about not "being average." You are better aware of what goes on in your head, so to you there are days where you're a horrible wreck. Why? Because you're living in it. But no one else will ever truly understand what's going on in your head. No language has enough words to describe how we think. That's why we have so much poetry and prose out there: We're still unable to really say in concrete words our abstract thoughts.

 

But, and here's the part we all really need to learn, another person may be able to do something 100% external that has an effect on us internally. Think of it like a cast on a broken bone. Usually all you can do is apply external assistance to let the internal take care of itself. That other person is like a cast, or a comfy weighted blanket, or something like that. It's nothing much right this moment, but eventually it'll work. Let's face it, we can't always even "fix" ourselves internally. If we could, there would be no therapists or counselors. We have to do external things to fix our internal parts.

 

So the CGs that you've experience in the past just weren't for you and you weren't for them. You're not ugly or extraneous. You're just you. One day you'll find a CG with the patience and ability.

[Guest ~DaddysLilMonster~]

You are not a reflection of those who can't love you, always remember that:) Everybody is beautiful.

[Guest MeneerM]

You are not ugly, you have not met the partner that is capable to care for you. It has nothing to do with you or your behavior. Different types of littles need different types of Daddy. We are not born alike. So try and you will find someone who can handle you and knows what you really need!

[Guest Waiting4us]

First thing is to accept self. The moment we accept ourselves we can no longer call self ugly and even if someone says so it can never be about you. Never let anyone have that right to judge you. Smile, be happy because the real beauty is inside not about just the skin outside.