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I feel like im the only little i know that does not like spankies...

Whenever ive gotten them, i feel even worse after and feel very disconnected from everyone (even if they try to be nice and cuddle after)

I want to lock myself up alone and just cry after it happens. I dont want to talk and pull myself away from any possible company.

 

I cant be the only one like this. Right? I hope not... it makes me feel like theres something very wrong with me :/

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Not all punishments are for everyone! It doesn't make you any less little if you don't like being spanked, just like it doesn't make you any less little if you don't like diapers or pacifiers or stuffies!

 

What I will say though is that it's always important that the receiver of the punishment has proper aftercare and is made sure to not be in any mental or physical trauma. ANY punishment needs aftercare, no matter how big or small - aftercare is so, so, SO important. 

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Doesn't seem so wrong to me, it's just your personal preference, which matters the most!

Guest Stevecarr998
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I'm a daddy who doesn't really like giving spankies

 

I will if I have to but I'm not comfortable

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Every Little Is Different.

 

Every Person Is Different.

 

We All Have Different Wants & Needs. 

 

Don't lose yourself, comparing yourself to others. 

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Every Little Is Different.

 

Every Person Is Different.

 

We All Have Different Wants & Needs. 

 

Don't lose yourself, comparing yourself to others. 

 

This! "A flower doesn't worries about the other flowers around it. It just blooms"

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There's nothing wrong with you. You just don't like spanking. Look at this way: some like foot rubs, some don't. Some like tickling, some hate it. Some like having hair pulled, some don't. I had a female friend who wanted me to slap her face, but I wouldn't do it. Neither of us are wrong, but we had different opinions.

 

It's your preference and there is never anything wrong with a preference or limit. 

 

Hope that helps.

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Thank you, all :) makes me feel better and that im not crazy for not liking it. Ive just never heard of anyone not liking it or giving them

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