Little Space In Public

[lilbug]

So, daddy and I are both still seniors in high school, and we have a few classes together. Lately I keep finding myself getting into little space at school and in class. Daddy doesn't really mind it, but whenever I'm in LS, I can't focus, I get really touchy and I distract daddy as well and I don't want him to do poorly in school because of me. (I'm not as scared for myself because I'm the kind of students that never study but still get A's and B's)

How can I stop myself from getting in to LS at school?

[Guest ~MissKittyWhiskers~]

Hello there!

 

So let first just say that I think it's awesome that you took the courage to ask this question, and to get advice on it. I find it hard a lot of the time to express myself, but lately I have been doing a better job of this. 

 

I personally feel like falling into little space in public is a perfectly normal thing to do. But you also need to be careful, because I know that when I am regressed, I lose track of whats going on around me sometimes, so its easy to forget. I myself can regress into little space a lot in public without noticing it right away. What I have been trying to do recently, is when I find myself starting to slip into it, I keep something tiny in my pocket that helps me stay balanced between my big head space and my little head space. 

 

You could also maybe pay attention more to see if you have any specific triggers that cause you to go into little space while in public. I haven't really figured mine out yet, but so far I know that anything shiny or resembling glitter really gets to me. But its okay sense its so sparklyyyyyyy       

 

I really hope this helped you in some way! My inbox is always open if you ever need someone to talk to!   

[spaceprincess_]

I'm in university (college for you USA peeps) and I was at a Kmart getting stationary with a classmate who doesn't know I'm a little, and accidentally wandered into the ADORABLE PINK BARBIE AISLE and was immediately in little space and had to hide it from said friend :'D Managed to resist squealing and jumping up and down, did kind of stand there for ages with big eyes looking at everything. 

 

Seriously just learn your triggers and avoid them, I stay away from the toy section now at all costs unless alone

[BabyGirl32015]

I would have to agree with everyone else when they say LEARN YOUR TRIGGERS!

 

I am still going to high school as well (part time student) and I have to try and catch myself when I'm distracting other people, even my other Little friends, from THEIR school work. I carry around a stuffy and a blanket along with a paci in a special bag that I can open up and keep with me for when I'm acting a bit more Little than usual. I call it my "Little Survival Pack!" It's something that I put together with my last daddy and I'm probably never going to stop using it!

 

Do what feels comfortable with you and talk to your friends about it so they know whats going on lol, I have a lot of friends that know now (I trust them a lot) that basically said "that explains a lot" and just roll with it. Some were even willing to do research so they could know how to help me feel comfortable while I'm at their houses and such. Really, this boils down to comfort, confidence, and communication with your dom!

 

Happy wishes!

[BruceDaLittle]

I'm 50% in and out of my space at all times I have no idea if this is normal but anyway, carry around something small I carry a movie replica coin from my favorite movie it helps me with my triggers and keeps me focused and big.

[Antoinette]

I want to add that it's important that you don't make your aspects of DDlg (littlespace/Daddyspace) open to the public, which is obviously slightly different to in public but the thing is DDlg is part of BDSM, BDSM being inherently sexual. People cannot consent to viewing your endeavors and even more importantly if it's somewhere like a public store then children may be subject to this.

 

Just so people don't get confused by what I'm saying:

 

Do:

 

-Feel little whenever it comes naturally to you.

-Learn your 'triggers' 

-Embrace your little side

-Get excited about cute stuff at a store

 

Don't: 

 

-Elude to DDlg where other people may be subject to it

-Try not to allow others hear nicknames like 'daddy' 

-Be sexual in front of others (especially minors) 

-Be scared or afraid to be little. 

 

Just be considerate of yourself and your surroundings, generally for me a good way to get out of little space is to concentrate on a given task (which, for me, would be hard if daddy were there with me - so I can't imagine your struggle!). Also, I suggest perhaps you don't completely suppress your littlespace but rather push it back a bit, I often slip into littlespace during a lecture (leading to endless scribbles of flowers/animals/sippies in my notebook!) but I never let it control me. You must be in control of yourself.

 

Also, I find it really admirable that you're trying to suppress this for the sake of your daddy, I just think perhaps you should do it for yourself as well. I am a student who also gets high grades without studying but it's always better to go above and beyond rather than just settling.