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Guest Bunnyblossom
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So many hugs... Seriously. 

You poor thing. :( 

That's a horrible position to be in. 

I really hope they start pulling their own weight soon (no pun intended). 

I honestly wish I could help. Or that you had a Daddy who could just whisk you away. 

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Music, I'm so sorry.  There is a point though that you need to step away and take care of you or they will never do for themselves.  As far as your mom goes if she maybe able to get ssi because of the ms have her look into it it maybe what helps her in the long run.  And for you dad I wish I could tell you more.  Hugs and stay strong.

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Your dads weight is not a good reason for him to not find a job. There are PLENTY of jobs that don't require you to be physically fit. Your mom needs to apply for disability and SSI to help bring in money. There is no reason they should be so dependent upon their daughter to take care of themselves. I suggest you find someone else to live with, a friend or something, and leave them to handle their own problems. It's not your responsibility and it's NOT your fault. They need to grow up and handle the lives they created. *Biggest hugs* I'm so sorry you have to go through this  :(

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I am sorry you are going through this Mia. As others have stated it is not your place to take care of them when your dad's only problem is weight. He can get up off the couch and get a job to support his family. It is his responsibility to do whatever is needed to make sure you and your mom are taken care of. As far as your mom goes she can file for the above mentioned programs to help. You may have to fight the system because they don't like giving our money back to us. But I would say that she should qualify. You may need to move out for 2 reasons. 1 to get yourself some breathing room, this is too much on you. 2 to show that no one in the household has an income , which may help push the paperwork along faster. Just hang in there Mia, things will turn around.

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