Littlechef Posted January 30, 2017 Report Posted January 30, 2017 Ok I just discovered this and realized that I belong here but my boyfriend doesn't understand this how do I get him to understand it
Guest Kittehmuffin Posted January 30, 2017 Report Posted January 30, 2017 Patience and communication. It's a all new to him.
lilsnoopy Posted January 30, 2017 Report Posted January 30, 2017 The link might be some help: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17295-general-topic-partner-not-wanting-to-be-in-a-cgl-relationship/?do=findComment&comment=91180
HeCallsMePrincess Posted January 30, 2017 Report Posted January 30, 2017 you might not be able to. either he's into it or he's not. 1
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 30, 2017 Report Posted January 30, 2017 You can't make someone be into it. And if he isn't willing to learn anything about it then your chances he's ever going to be into it are pretty slim. 1
professor daddy Posted June 5, 2017 Report Posted June 5, 2017 I think it can be hard to explain to someone that might have already made up their mind. A different route is to ease playful aspects of ddlg into what you already share with him. Being needy, being vocal, asking for help. Then you can show him that's what it means to you, and see if it makes more sense to him.
littlebibi Posted June 7, 2017 Report Posted June 7, 2017 My boyfriend is not dominant (he is switch) or daddy and he told me there is no way he would be interested in DDLG but... I think, he kinda acts like a daddy .. he takes care of me and he likes my adorability, he likes to create our own world of fantasy but he sees me as an independent woman and he dont like to be compared to being daddy.. well, I respect his opinion as he do mine childish personality so we are able to work on our relationship even we have different expectations... sometimes i miss rules etc. but if he loves you and your childlike personality you cant persuade him to be daddy but yeah.. he loves you as you are so there has to be way how to solve this problem...
*Firefly* Posted June 9, 2017 Report Posted June 9, 2017 you cant make him understand or make him lke it, but you can ask him to try it out for a little while. talk to him about it. if he loves you and you tell him its important to you, he will probably be willing oto at least try it just to make you happy. but dont force him into it, that will only lead to unhappiness
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